Around our house, we call the 3pm to dinner-time span the Witching Hour. I find that time of day the most challenging. At work, my energy and focus lag in the late afternoon. At home, the kids arrive home from school hungry, and tired but wired.
We struggle to strike a balance between: warm, welcoming and relaxing; and the business of our lives, dinner, homework and getting back out the door for evening activities.
So, if you find the late afternoon a challenge, too, here are some ideas to make it a little less evil….
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- Take a moment or two when your energy starts to lag, and refocus your brain and energy. Assess what you still need to accomplish today, clear out brain clutter, and recommit to getting your tasks done.
- If you need a break, take a walk, grab an ice-cold glass of water, and take a few moments of calm. At work and at home, everyone around you will benefit from a calmer, more-focused you.
- Lay out tasty treats. I was inspired by this after a party, when the kids re-plated on a serving dish veggies and dip, and crackers and cheese after school. It takes no time to chop some fruit and add a couple of sliced hardboiled eggs and crackers. I have been trying to reach those recommended 5-9 servings of fruits / veggies a day, and this could help!
- Banish the TV and any other screens unless they’re used for homework. For example, computers and IPads for homework purposes are fine, but not for play until the homework is done. And if the homework is done quickly, send them outside for some exercise or to the family room for some Wii action!
- Put your family to work. Kids of every age can help make dinner, set and clear the table, take out the trash or put laundry away.
- Encourage independence and organized habits. Have hooks available for everyone (kids and adults, too!!) to hang jackets, accessories and backpacks, and make it a habit.
- Remember the homework basket (http://colleencpo.wordpress.com/2012/08/14/an-organized-work-space-for-student-success/)? Keep a basket at hand with the supplies your children need for completing their homework.
- Collect papers and process all at once. Pile today’s mail, the contents of my briefcase, any papers that came home from school, etc. Then open the mail, recycle/ shred / purge anything you don’t need, file papers you want to keep, and act on the papers that need completion.
A word here…. As I wrote up these ideas, it occurs to me that all of these ideas are good for all of us, adults and children alike. Take a breather, refocus, eat a healthy snack, banish the TV, help each other, encourage independent and organized habits. Good for all of us, all the time!
I hope these ideas help you with your Witching Hour, too. Try one or two this week, and let me know how it goes!
