Hang on while we load the rest of the page...
 
 

POLL: Do You Support Gay Marriage?

In light of President Barack Obama's recent announcement supporting gay marriage and a story that has generated a lot of chatter, we want to hear what you think. Take a moment to vote in our poll.

 

It's no secret that President Barack Obama has proclaimed his support for same-sex marriage.

It was a move—one made during an interview with ABC News that aired in part on Wednesday—that conjured a mixed reaction from those in the Southland.

READ: Taking Heart and Umbrage at Obama's Stance on Same-Sex Marriage

Chicago Heights resident Zhenya Krassitchkova said the proclamation was like a "breath of fresh air for the gay community."

The 29-year-old entered into a civil union with her longtime girlfriend, Marina Bassett, almost one year ago when Illinois became the sixth state in the United States to issue licenses joining any two non-married adults. 

U.S. Rep. Jesse Jackson Jr. also applauded Obama's announcement. 

"I want to congratulate President Obama for bending the arc of the moral universe of human and civil rights toward justice yesterday," he said in a news release Thursday. "His evolving stance on same-sex marriage was similar to my own." 

Republican Don Peloquin, the Blue Island mayor who's vying for a spot in the 1st Congressional District, didn't answer the question quite as directly

When asked before the primary for his take on social issues, including same sex marriage, he said he does "not believe that we need to create new laws to regulate society." He also did not return a message left Thursday. 

But the real question is — what do you think? We want to hear what you have to say.

Vote in the poll and leave your thoughts about gay marriage in the comments section.

  • How do you feel about same-sex marriage?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • I support legalized gay marriage.
        771 (48%)
    • I oppose gay marriage on moral grounds.
        660 (41%)
    • I oppose gay marriage, but not for any moral or religious reason.
        130 (8%)
    • I'm just opposed to marriage!
        32 (2%)
    Total votes: 1593
  • Your vote will only count once. This is not a scientific poll. View Results Vote!
Related Topics: Barack Obama, Gay Marriage, Gay Rights, and same-sex marriage

mundoringa

6:16 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

this is unhuman but if u like it carry on

Reply
Comment_arrow

warnerkr

3:25 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

So is coveting thy neighbor's wife, but that's not illegal...

Comment_arrow

Carin

8:05 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

So is polluting the environment (otherwise know as driving a car) so if you drive a car, you're a sinner.

Comment_arrow

I love the gays.

7:12 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Your a sin. How do you know it's a sin? What because the bible said so? Come up with an more original answer. Please I'm so sick of people playing the bible card. Maybe god changed his mind and accepts gay and doesn't think it's a so called sin. You people kill me. I can't stand people like you. Ps I'm straight and I think gay marriage is a beautiful thing. :)

Robert

7:37 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

The problem is, the gay rights agenda wants thier veiws to matter at any cost no matter who they step on or whos rights to take away. I vote no.
On Obama. Hes just trying to get reelected . He'll say anything.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Fraggs

7:44 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Are you suggesting that legalizing gay marriage also means making marriage illegal for straight couples? I don't see how this has anything to do with stepping on others or taking things away from others.

Comment_arrow

Richard

10:25 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

I challenge you to show me any way whatsoever in which you are harmed by two people of the same sex getting married. What is this "cost" you are talking about? Not you, nor any one else, can show me that it would harm them. The truth is, you simply don't like it.

Comment_arrow

George W. Garrett

12:47 am on Thursday, May 17, 2012

No doubt reelection is the key here and the objective of the gay rights agenda is to do to the same thing to the word marriage they have done to the word gay ie. utterly destroy the original definition of the word until it is completely meaningless. If you don't believe they can do it, just try using the word gay in it original meaning of "a carefree adventurous happy-go-lucky individual.". See how far you get before you are laughed out of the room. They mean to do the same thing to the word marriage.

Comment_arrow

Barbie Deal

8:46 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

I oppose gay marriage ... period. Biblically homosexuality is a sin.

Comment_arrow

Bob

10:24 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

To Fraggs and Richard and others who don't understand how gay marriage will hurt you, here's how:
1) Additional expenditures for government and company benefits-This will cause new "family coverage" liabilities that currently don't exist. You'll be paying for these additional obligations through taxes or less needed services. This, as did the 26 year old offspring rule, increases the coverage costs of the health insurance plans and that cost is passed along to those paying for the plan, plus a fairly sized mark-up for administration.

2) Social security-Liabilities will increase for survivor benefits since these are paid to spouses and under age children.

Of course, we have no way to estimate at this time how much the cost will be. "Marriages" can occur just get increased benefits. I know different sex couples can do this now, but increasing a mistake to expand this abuse is bad policy.

From a cultural issue, this may hurt our children most of all.

In Massachussetts, once marriage became "legal" the GLBT militant arm immediately sought to use it as a hammer to force public schools to promote the gay lifestyle as "legitimate and desirable", despite families' religious objections.

None of the negative aspects of this lifestyle could be taught, nor could the moral objections to this lifestyle be discussed of debated. Only promotional discussion was allowed.

Additional cost and forcing gay culture acceptance on the public is what this is about, not "love".

Comment_arrow

Grunty

11:24 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Increasing health care coverage for families with children up to age 26 is actualy a way to lower costs. Most males, 18-30 do not go to the doctor very often, but many paretns will keep them on the plan on pay the additional coverage. This is basically "more money in the pot".

Gay marriage will cost more in benefits, but all this means is that currently gay people are inadvertantly subsidizing the marraige and death benefits for heterosexual couples. So what your saying is its ok for them to pay more to support you and your family, but the moment we talk about making benefits equal, you are going to cry poor.

If this is the truth, and you really feel that way, then what has to happen is that benefits need to be reduced across the board or gays simply pay less into SS since they do not recieve the same benefit as a heterosexual person...

Although some gay people want to marry, and use the word marry, many just want the rights afforded to a married couple. Why would you deny those rights?

Comment_arrow

Bob

3:31 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Actually, Grunty, from everything I've read the "preventive care" approach is much more expensive than "diagnose and cure". For example, every everyone had a $3,000 colonoscopy every few years, the cost of actual treatment for the few who actually get the disease would be dwarfed by the cost of testing and examination.

The argument that it's worth the money to save lives may be a valid one, but then it becomes a matter of increasing the amount and cost of health care we receive.

Younger, healthier people subisidize the healthcare of older, less healthy people in the current system, and that subsidy will skyrocket under Obamacare.

Regarding SSC, you do understand that it isn't an "investment", it's a tax and means of economic and generational wealth redistribution, right?

The disabled and indigent get far more from it than they ever pay, and older recipients are HEAVILY subsidized by younger people in the system, far beyond what they have "earned" under the paltry payments they made over the years.

I can think of hundreds of ways to spend more government money, as most people can. The problem is that we've reached the point that we can no longer afford to add more entitlements, let alone keep up with funding current ones. A good start to controlling this problem is stopping all new entitlements, of which this would be one.

Is this "unfair"? Sure. But the existing system of giveaways and entiltements is no more fair to those paying the bills.

Comment_arrow

Sue1

9:08 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

What rights are they taking away?

nick

7:45 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Most pollsters claim that 'gays' are less than 5% of the population. But the gays want the other 95% of people to accept their behavior as 'normal' and OK.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Nolan

9:44 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

You don't have to accept anything, just leave people alone to make their own decisions because it is normal and ok.

Comment_arrow

Mike

2:50 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Asians also make up 5% of the population, should we deny them rights to? It doesn't matter how big or small a minority is, equality is for everyone. You are free to believe that being gay is not normal and not okay, but you are not free to deny those people the same protections and opportunities you have.

Comment_arrow

Richard

10:27 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Because it IS normal.
Some facts for you: The Diagnostic manual of the American Psychological Association and the American Psychiatric Association stopped classifying homosexuality as a mental disorder decades ago.
Second, gay behavior can be found among something like 176 species in the animal world.

Comment_arrow

Jim Quinn

6:59 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

How about it;s not an issue,it's a distraction.Make gay marriage legal, but if you want to force your view on someone, make abortion illegal, then you will see the support from the left just disappear...

Comment_arrow

Jay Hutchens

10:43 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Why do you care who gets married and who loves who. Grow up.

Marianne Claussen

7:48 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

How does gay marriage take away anyones rights?

Reply
Comment_arrow

Richard

10:31 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Exactly right. I say it's impossible to show how gay marriage harms anyone. If people were more honest, they'd admit that they simply don't like the idea. To them I say, well, maybe your behavior includes things I don't like, but I'm not trying to take away your right to do what you like and want to do. Like having many, many children--in an overpopulated world.

babyboomer

7:58 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I support legal civil unions, but not gay "Marriage", but that is up to each individual religion, as the term marriage generally is associated a religious ceremony.

Reply
Comment_arrow

OrlandMom

2:05 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Not necessarily true. Marriage is accepted by the US government. Those who are married can file a joint tax return and file for survivor Social Security benefits when a spouse dies. Civil Unions are not recognized by the Federal Government so neither of the above applies to them.
I am against gay marriage regardless. My feelings though are based on the fact that if we move that line once we will have to move it yet again down the road. How long until polygamists want the same rights? When will people then begin the fight to marry a sibling or other immediate family member? When will people begin to fight for the right to marry a child? I can go on with examples but I'm sure you get the point. In my opinion, marriage needs to stay defined as one man and one woman.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

5:18 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Marriage is a social and legal institution. If people want a religious wedding ceremony, that's super, but marriage after the wedding day is simply a legal arrangement. Not allowing such civil rights to any segment of the population is unjust.

Marriage in and of itself is not sacred. In many cultures, past and present, girls have no choice in partners as daughters are considered property. Victorian English (and concurrent American) marriages were often arranged to enable the transfer of property from father to daughter, and many contemporary cultures endorse arranged marriages. Same-sex marriages existed in the early Roman Empire. I don't know how anyone could argue with a straight face that marriage is an honored religious tradition between a man and a woman that needs to be protected from The Gays. In fact, divorce rates in the U.S. have been declining since the late 1990s--the same decade that the first partnership benefits for same-sex couples were recognized in the United States. Perhaps, then, same-sex marriage is healthy for other marriages, not damaging. (I'm sure it's a coincidence, but I'm tired of hearing the "damaging to marriage" argument. It should also be noted that Southern, and other notably Red states, like Alaska, have the highest divorce rates in the country, with the Blue Northeast at the lowest. So are Republicans less respectful of marriage, then?)

Comment_arrow

Richard

10:38 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

To clarify one point: Where gay marriage has been legalized, no religious institutions have been forced to perform gay unions.
In fact, "marriage" as recognized by civil law confers many rights, such as the right to file a joint income-tax return. (It's been estimated there are about 1000 rights that marriage confers.) And that is the reason why the advocates of same-sex marriage want full marriage and not just civil unions.
There have been numerous instances where one member of a same-sex couple has been very seriously ill or injured, and was hospitalized; and the other partner has been denied to right to visit the sick one in their hospital bed--on the grounds that he or she was "not family." That is another, yet very important, reason for gay marriage.

Comment_arrow

warnerkr

3:31 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Then leave it up to each individual religion!! You miss the point --- that right now it is not up to any religion because it is ILLEGAL. If we made a law to ban everything we don't agree with, life would be chaos. If it is against your religion, then your religion should not allow it. But that does not mean it should be illegal!!!

Comment_arrow

sweet heart

10:39 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

I,agree with babybommer. Religous ceremony should be with husband and wife,To have children with, I,would never go to a gay marriage. Why are we supporting gay people to adpot children also. They will just show them it is okay to be gay/,When the child grows up and that okay. I,do not thimk so!

carole

8:05 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

The legal act of marriage does not solve your problem. For some marriage does not make it anymore acceptable. Maybe in your mind but you need to address what you are trying to avoid. Accessability to intensive care not being a family member. You may want to review hospital policies. There are legal ways to avoid being kept from seeing a person in intensive care (family only).

Reply

christina grubermann

8:07 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I think people who love each other and want to be married to the person that they love should be able to do so regardless of their sexual preference. Homosexuals....heterosexuals...transsexuals.....bisexuals.....and anything else there is.....they're all human so why shouldn't they all be treated equally? Why should it be ok for a straight couple to profess their love through marriage but it's not ok for a male homosexual couple or a female homosexual couple to do the same thing? I'm with Obama I support gay marriage 100%! We are all human and should be treated as such....you wouldn't want someone tellingyou that you cannot marry the person you love right? Who are we to tell people who they can or cannot marry? I'm for it marry who you want and I hope it legalizes everywhere so you can.

Reply
Comment_arrow

pamela m

10:59 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I agree with you Christina: if you are fortunate enough to find another person with whom to share your life, it should not matter the gender. That said, if your personal religion dictates that you should pair with the opposite gender, that's fine too. Each person should be able to decide on their own..... The government should not be allowed legislate love and marriage....they need to stay out of the bedroom! This is America folks......

Neil Callahan

3:17 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

The President's stance on gay marriage will have minimal effect on the election. those that it effects directly are a small percentage of all voters, and those who take it negatively, were already voting against him anyway.

As far as this being a "Sin", that would only be valid for your particular religion. It has absolutely no bearing on legality.

We have already established, in this nation, that human rights, or lack thereof, cannot be dictated by the majority. Otherwise Minorities would not be allowed to vote.

Reply

Eva

8:20 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Who cares if theymarry. I think there are more important issues like job's, education, hunger. etc. I feel the same about Birth Contro and abortions. None of any one's business.........................................

Reply
Comment_arrow

OrlandMom

2:12 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I agree that what happens in someone's bedroom is no one's business, however, our government apparently does not feel that way. They are trying to regulate too much. Just like birth control - they want to mandate it. They are trying to force religious institutions to cover birth control options which go against the teaching of most faiths. If they pass a federal law to recognize gay marriage, how long until they start telling religious institutions that they must then perform these "marriages" and acknowledge these unions? It's a very fine line we are walking with all of this and in my opinion the government should just stay out of it all.
I do totally agree with you on the fact that there are so many more important issues in this country. This shouldn't even be an issue when trying to choose a Presidential candidate to vote for.

Grunty

8:27 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I support the ability for anyone to believe whatever beliefs they want to have.

That being said, you can't make gay marraige illegal because its a sin. If that was the case, what about the rest of the sins that are currently not illegal. Gluttony is a perfect example. If gay marraige is going to be illegal on the grounds of it being a sin, then it should be illegal to be over wieght.

According to those same people, being gay is a sing to begin with so what's the difference. Its not illegal to be gay.

The simple way I see to solve this entire thing is to abolish the term marraige as it exists on any government form or law. Make every "social union that creates kinship" legally use the term Civil Union. Anyone can call thier civil union whatever they'd like to call it amongst themselves (just like you can't stop people from calling VTR's VCR's when the name VCR is actually owned by Phillips), but legally marriage would no longer be the legal term used.

I so no reason why gay people should not be able to file taxes jointly, get on thier spouses health insurance, or be able to communicate with a doctor or visit them in a hospital when its "family or spouse" only type situation among many other things.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Nolan

8:45 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Wow, Grunty. Spell check and a little sentence structure would do wonders for your writing. I had to read this three times to decipher what you were trying to say.

Comment_arrow

Grunty

9:13 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Hello Pot,

"Wow, Grunty."

This is not a complete sentence.

Your Friend,

Kettle.

Comment_arrow

Nolan

1:35 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Sorry about the incomplete sentence. That is a mistake that I readily admit to. Those were the words that I said out loud to myself as I shook my head while reading your comment. I Will try to be perfect in the future.
Most people write things to be read by other people. I'm sorry to say, your comment was almost unreadable.

Comment_arrow

Grunty

2:15 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Thank you for the apology. Please do not let it happen again.

Comment_arrow

Tammy Mancini

7:01 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

Nolan, when people start criticizing grammar and spelling, that usually means they have nothing of substance to add to the conversation. Try sticking to the topic. If you had to read Grunty's post three times in order to understand it (because of a couple of TYPOS) then maybe its you who needs to go back to school for a reading comprehension class...just sayin.

Pat

8:29 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I believe in small government. I believe government should stay out of our bedrooms and out of our decisions over our own bodies. I believe that without choice there is no freedom. I believe every person should have the right to choose.

Reply

margaret sutton

8:31 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Marriage is not just a feel good I love you we are so deep everybody has a "right" bond. It is greater than that. It is a spiritual truth based on what God set forth as the criteria making it that Godly bond of marriage. It was set forth as a man and a woman and God as the pinnacle of that relationship, committing to walk, love, serve, God and each other, to His glory and to His establishment. God is not slow, prudish, stupid or cavalier. He did not accidently forget to add on man to man or woman to woman definition of marriage. He called that kind of relationship off base, a spiritual abomination. Not the person, the spiritualness. Everything is spiritual. We try to stuff physical issues into spiritual issues. Kinda like putting a square peg into a round hole and saying look! It fits. Only it is according to our feelings, our sentiments, and not the spiritual reality of what God has established and why. Then it is debated as being a violation of personal right. Go ahead and love the way you will but don't put the stamp of approval on it as an entitlement of what God set forth as the sanctity of marriage. God's will bears itself out.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Nolan

9:40 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

You are so delusioned it's scary. Your brainwashing religious dogma is not what marriage is about. Not everyone is of your religion (or they may be an atheist such as myself), so they can make their own decisions on why they want to get married based on their beliefs, not yours. I am married to a woman and we do not believe in a god, yet it is totally legal for us to be married, no religion involved. My brother is in a civil union with a wonderful man and they would be the legal guardians of my infant son should my wife and I die. They wish to be married in this state and I hope it is soon possible. Read your own religious texts, god also says that man should beat his wife when neccesary, own foreigners as slaves, stone a woman to death for not being a virgin on her wedding day, sell your daughter into sex slavery, etc. We have evolved to realize that those primative man made up laws and fables are not best for a modern society, and so we dropped them. It is way past due time that we drop the silly "Man should not lay down with man" religious law and grow up. The world is not flat, evolution of life by natural selection is fact, and people should be able to marry any consenting adult that they choose. Serve yourself and your family, think freely, and let others do the same.
.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

5:22 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

So, atheists shouldn't marry, then? How you going to enforce that law?

Comment_arrow

Lauren P

6:36 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Margaret,

You are correct in that God did not forget to add man to man or woman to woman to the "spiritual truth", as you define marriage, but he did add man to woman, and another woman, and another woman, and another woman....Polygamy, in the Old Testament, was sanctioned by both man and God. Indeed, a great number of prophets had multiple wives and concubines. Polygamy was not outlawed by the Jews until 1000 B.C. because society, at that point, had become monogamous, not because there was some heavenly edict proclaiming that marriage is a spiritual truth between a man and a woman. I can't speak to your beliefs, but I would venture to say that you wouldn't approve of your husband taking another wife, even though God sanctioned such practice in the very Bible you wish to throw at others as support for your positions.

Comment_arrow

Edine

8:28 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Margaret, does that mean that a man and woman who are athiests should not be allowed to get married?

Comment_arrow

interested

4:09 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

There are also religions that will kill people for dancing. And kill women for not wearing a hood. There is freedom of religion in the US, which means you have the right FOR YOURSELF to make the choice and believe what you want. It is discriminatory to tell a gay person (which is not one's choice) they cannot live their life with dignity. Until Christians realize that they cannot impose their will on other people, we will not move forward as a country.

Lisa

8:48 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

It's about time! I am a married strait woman but believe gay couples have just as much rights to marry as I did! It's about love period who are we to decide what is right or wrong no one is being harmed .

Reply
Comment_arrow

nick

10:15 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

GOD made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve

Comment_arrow

interested

4:11 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

God also made Adam and Steve. It just got edited out.

Cczdziarski

8:54 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

You are right in the fact that people have a right to choose, God gave us that free will, He created us that way. Doesn't mean that what we choose to do or how we choose to live is always right. He's clear in His word that marriage is supposed to be between a man and a woman. If it was anything else, He would have told us so. I don't say all this judgingly for His word tells us we've all come short of the glory of God, we're all sinners. I also don't follow a specific religion, my beliefs are solely based on what the Bible says because the Bible is our Creator's word and truth. Seek it and you too shall see what your Creator has to say about this specific topic along with many others.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Freedom Lover

9:10 am on Monday, February 18, 2013

I believe that God loves everyone who is a moral person. If you don't lie, cheat, steal,
and treat everyone with respect. You are a moral person. That means respecting everyone Gay or straight, black or white.

Fraggs

8:58 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Splitting the poll's "No" answer into two choices is unnecessary. No is no, and to be perfectly honest, voting "No" for moral reasons or for any other reason is the same thing since both answers are immoral.

Now, if it's against your religion, fine, that's your right to believe what you want, but... The Bible says homosexuality is an abomination. It is a sin. The Bible also says women aren't allowed to talk in church and that we should be killing everybody that works on Sunday. It also says slavery is perfectly acceptable. In other words, that argument against gay marriage is invalid. Which leaves us with only one semi-morally acceptable reason to vote No. And that is....YOU'RE not comfortable with it. Sadly, it's not about you.

Reply
Comment_arrow

WA Mama

9:53 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Fraggs, you are like a little island of reality among all this floating crap. Thank you.

How is it that some people have been duped into thinking that allowing two gay people to get legally married would somehow affect ANYBODY'S anything? How would it affect taxes? How would it affect straight people's rights? How would it damage your children? And PLEASE don't come at me with that crap about marriage being a sacred vow before God - what is the divorce rate in this country now? How many times should I expect God to sanctify my bad choice? Even good choices go bad. If you want to take a religious stance on it, then try this on for size: Jesus accepted everyone. Jesus told us to love each other as we love God. Not just some people, all people. And once you say that we're all alike in Jesus' eyes, who are you to choose what is legal for some and not for others?

It used to be a sin for women to vote and for mixed couples to marry. Same-sex marriage is just the next thing-we-thought-was-important-at-the-time-but-now-we-feel-stupid-that-it-was-a-big-deal. Let it go, already.

Comment_arrow

CommonSense

7:20 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Fraggs, your summation of biblical history in regards to slavery, or the advancement of women, which spans over 2,000 years from the Old Testament through the New Testament shows your ignorance. I might suggest reading the entire Bible (twice) before using "snipets" to make such a disrepectful comment. The "30 Day Bible" has been written just for you. Yes it can actually be read in 30 days.
If you're an atheist however, just say you are.
Using biblical snipets isn't a fair representation of the hundreds of millions of Cathlolics / Christians and Jews that will love YOU and pray for you even if you hate them. You can call them insane if you will, it's your right. But these "believers" are a group of people who try to live and uphold certain traditional values and truths that they believe to be divinely inspired for giving mankind the most successful model for living. The over-whelming majority of the religious amoungst us should be applauded for their committment to a life of accountability and servitude.
You said "Sadly, it's not about you" - I agree

zula 5

9:16 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Oh My of course that is so hot!

Reply

cingularmannnnnnn@yahoo.com

9:18 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I really don't care what two queers do,but when tax dollars are involved then no!!!!!

Reply
Comment_arrow

Lauren P

6:45 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Your comment makes no sense.

dave bird

9:38 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

what the hell does that have to do with it? how many straight white, black and what ever have screwed us.

Reply

zula 5

9:45 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

No more senseless wars with a gay president.

Reply

ET

10:17 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Humanity Is mentally Insane. This way you can justify all the abnormalities. I thought "marriage"was a religious event. Same sex marriage doesn't fly from the start because religiously same sex marriage Is condemned. Most of these people don't believe In the existence of a God and If they do It's only a label. If 2 guys or babes wanna hook up who's to stop them but what I don't agree with Is creating a whole new meaning to the word marriage. It's funny from all the animals on earth, humans are the only one's who get Into this bs. The blueprint says It all, who and what you are. You can't be gay and be normal. If one's gay and thinks their computer Is running normally they have even bigger problems. The plumbing says It all people!

Reply
Comment_arrow

Nolan

10:08 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

First off, humanity is not mentally insane, that would include yourself. Second, marriage does not have to be a religious event, consider two atheists getting married. No religion involved in my wedding. Third, again-take out the religious aspect and gay marriage is not condemned by people of the human race. Forth, most of the gay population is religious, from what I have seen in every area of the media and my gay family members. Fifth, you used the term "babes", really? Sixth, the word marriage is defined by the people that have entered into that marriage. You can't force your beliefs on them. Seventh, I don't know what you mean by the animal reference but many animal species have gay attributes, and animals do not debate over religious or social issues because they don't have the brain developement that we have gained through evolution. Eigth, every single person on earth has their own blueprint. You can (and people are) gay and normal. I don't get the computer reference at all. Lastly, sometimes, what people feel has nothing to do with their plumbing.

Comment_arrow

Sue1

11:02 am on Friday, May 18, 2012

How are marriage ceremonies at the court house a religious event?

Bonnie Bell

10:20 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

The problem for me with gay marriage is what it then leads to. The wanting to "adopt" Kids, and raise them in an unnatural environment. And It truly is not the Norm. In the case of the man above who will have his brother raise his child if something happens to him, fine; but having to go out and "find" someone to have their child for them goes against the biblical reason for marriage which is pro creation. We are all entitled to our opinions, as this forum demonstrates.

Reply
Comment_arrow

RobertS

10:34 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Ummmm... Hey! I was raised by heterosexuals and I am gay—sexuality is not defined by lifestyle, we are born with it. I have many gay friends that are raising children and they're straight. Gay people don't need to adopt, they can make their own babies with other people that are open-minded, loving, and want children to have a great home.

Comment_arrow

Nolan

2:23 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

So you are saying that if a couple is sterile they should not be allowed to get married because they can't have children. If your elderly mother wanted to get married to a man she loved, ten years after your father died, she should not be allowed to because she could not possible bare children at 80 years old. People get married for love in this day and age. The bible and other religious texts were written by biggoted, chauvanist, hateful, insecure men looking for power over the poor and uneducated of the time. Any environment filled with love is a natural one. I know several children, now grown, that were raised by gay couples and they are the nicest, most well adjusted kids I know. Not being the norm can definitely be a good thing. I understand how you could be afraid that something else in your brainwashing bible will be proven wrong for a progessive modern society, but let it go already. Think for yourself, don't let an old book think for you, and live to serve mankind-not a mythical ghost.

Comment_arrow

Sara Waters

9:41 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Why did you put quotes around the word adopt. Are you saying gay people really don't adopt they only think they do? As a straight woman, I'd be proud to be a surrogate for a gay couple.

Comment_arrow

Sara Waters

9:44 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Bonnie - The Norm is divorced household. So you'd rather a child be brought up in a home that is broken by your terms rather than one of love because it's between two people of the same gender?

By your standards of them having go 'find' someone to have their child is claiming any straight couple who cannot conceive does not have any business adopting a child who needs a loving family either. And any woman who cannot conceive should not be worthy of marriage at all?

If you're willing to show your true colors, you should post your real name.

Comment_arrow

Tammy Mancini

7:16 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

Bonnie Bell, Do you realize how ridiculous that statement is? "having to go out and find someone to have their child for them goes against the biblical reason for marriage which is procreation" REALLY?? What about heterosexual couples who cannot have children? Maybe we should ban all people who cannot procreate from being able to marry then right? Do you realize how many heterosexual couples use surrogates to carry and have their babies for them? So its "the norm" for straight couples, but not "the norm " when it comes to gay couples? Which is it?

Comment_arrow

prophet12155

8:04 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

are you kidding me? what hypocrisy! how many supposed "religious" couples use fertility treatments to have a child? how is that any way different from a gay couple wanting to adopt a child or using a surrogate? there is no way you can call any way a person wants to have a child the right or wrong way (unless your "religion" tells you otherwise and again fertility treatments etc) as long as the parents LOVE ADORE AND CHERISH that child that is what matters. my parents were all catholic wonderful and had us kids the old fashioned way and beat the crap out of us whenever they wanted. wonderful heterosexual catholic people having kids "the normal way"

Comment_arrow

Sue1

11:01 am on Friday, May 18, 2012

This happens all the time in the heterosexual community, so you are saying it is wrong there as well?

Comment_arrow

lvent

4:07 am on Sunday, August 5, 2012

This war is on our Constitutional Rights. Not on each other. We are worried about gay couples adopting children while the moneyed elite are stealing our country right from under our noses...! There is a war raging here in America and it should not be between all of us. We are all equal under the U.S.C , or are we a dictatorship. You cant have both.

Dee Dee

10:29 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Gay marriage is a Sin, plain and simple. If more people read the bible, and went to church, they would see this. The gay rights agenda wants thier veiws to matter at any cost no matter what. "Marriage" is a union between a man and a woman, PERIOD, End of Story.

God did not accidentally forget to add into the bible a "man to man" or "woman to woman" definition of marriage. He called that kind of relationship a spiritual abomination.

I believe that Obama made the statement, only because it is an election year, and he wants the Gay vote. He is a politician. And we all know how politicians in Illinois can Lie, cheat and steal their way to votes.

People can support and believe whatever they want, its a free country, but at least when I go to heaven, I know I won't be seeing any men on men or women on women, because they will all be spending eternity with the devil.

Its my personal stance, and I stand by it. Its a free country, and we can each have our own opinion.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Clare O'Connell

1:03 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

although i do go to church every sunday, which is a lot more than most christians, the basis of our country is FREEDOM OF RELIGION. that means that not everyone has to go to church and read the bible and believe in god.
i also find it sad when 'christians' use their religion to preach hatred like you are. you have no right in this country to tell people what to believe. i'm sure you also think that obama is a communist... however you are truly preaching communism when you think everyone must believe in god and in the bible.

Comment_arrow

Nolan

2:39 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

According to your god it is a sin for you to speak in church, but I'm sure you do that. In the old testament it was a sin to pray anywhere else other then by yourself at home. So everyone going to church is a sinner. If more people read the entire bible there would be a huge surge in atheism because the book contradicts itself. It is a truly evil, hateful and revengeful text obviously based on the insecurities of the primative men that wrote it. I feel so sorry that this torment has been forced upon you since you were an impressionable young child. What a sin.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

5:29 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I'm sure Dee Dee also leaves the village when she's menstruating, would stone her disobedient daughter, and would never, ever eat a shrimp or wear clothing of mixed fabrics.

Comment_arrow

David Vancina

9:07 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

"I'm sure Dee Dee also leaves the village when she's menstruating..."
Complete Biblical illiteracy. Before attempting to quote Scripture, please consider learning the difference between Hebrew ceremonial law and moral law.

Comment_arrow

Freedom Lover

9:12 am on Monday, February 18, 2013

Its a sin only in your mind!!!

NKLN

10:31 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Its not a matter of and gay or straight, it's about human rights. The amount of negative responses to this question have reinforced that I am living in the wrong place. I married the love of my life and i wish the same for everyone. I don't want to raise children in a community that doesn't respect human rights and love. It's 2012, and Oak Lawn is less progressive than my 89 year old grandmother. If your God doesn't approve of gay people, why does he create them? I'm going to continue to love my neighbor, gay straight or otherwise, and hope this world becomes a kinder place to us all. Cheers

Reply
Comment_arrow

David Vancina

9:18 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

"If your God doesn't approve of gay people, why does he create them?"
God creates people. People choose their own sin. That's the essence of the problem.

The point is not to debate whose sin is greater -- it's to get people to come to the Savior.

This illustration seems apt: http://shop.nogreaterjoy.org/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/3/6/3620-10.jpg

Making this a "kinder" world will be great right up until Judgment Day. Then then only thing that will matter is what you said to Jesus' offer of Himself -- "yes" or "no".

Genvieve LaChappele

10:32 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I love how if your are opposed to gay marriage, you are automatically a bigot. Anyone who labels another is intolerant. Why can't both opinions be tolerated. Practice what you preach.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Nolan

2:55 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Because if you are a lawmaker and your opinion effects how someone can or cannot choose to live their lives then it should not be tolerated. This type of decision is not a question for polititians or government but one for the individual person. You just labeled someone as intolerant.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

5:36 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

You're entitled to your opinion just as people are entitled to not respect your opinion. Opposing gay marriage and talking about it, however, is an action, not an opinion. Wishing to deny other human beings civil rights is, yes, pretty bigoted. If you single out gay people to not deserve a basic civil right like marriage, or, for example, not allow a black person to use your bathroom, those actions are bigoted and Jesus wouldn't approve.

Comment_arrow

David Vancina

9:21 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Nolan, lawmakers tell us all how to live in all kinds of ways. And rebels always push to get around the law. That doesn't mean the law is wrong -- God's law or man's law. It just shows that rebels will always rebel.

Comment_arrow

David Vancina

9:25 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

"...Jesus wouldn't approve."
Again, deep Biblical illiteracy. Jesus never approved of any transgression of the Father's law. Please don't put words in His mouth.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

10:03 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

David Vancina, Jesus encouraged people not to judge "lest ye be judged," and if we must judge it should be a "righteous judgment." This means that concerning people who do the same kinds of things we do, we need to mind our own business. However, if people around us transgress worse than we do or in a way that harms us directly, we can offer fair judgment. If I know someone is a thief, I don't have to let him or her into my house--that's a righteous judgment. If another person does something that doesn't harm me directly and isn't worse than the "sins" I commit, my judging of him or her is not righteous and is not justified under Matthew in the New Testament.

It most definitely goes against what Jesus taught to cherrypick strange snippets from the Old Testament on which to judge perfect strangers, strangers whose behavior is not violent or dishonest or thievish.

David, we may disagree, but I assure you that I am not "Bible illiterate." My parents made sure of that.

Comment_arrow

David Vancina

10:29 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

"...if we must judge it should be a 'righteous judgment.' This means that concerning people who do the same kinds of things we do, we need to mind our own business."

What? How did you get that? The verse you cite is from John's gospel, and the passage does not state or lead to any such conclusion.

If you want to say you don't believe God has the right to say what is sin, fine. I can accept that, no matter how much I disagree with it. But God unambiguously identifies homosexual practice as sin. Old Testament and New. This is eternal, moral law, entirely different from the ceremonial laws you've cited elsewhere in this thread, which were indeed done away by Jesus' atoning sacrifice.

Again, if you don't believe the Bible is authoritative or you don't believe man is beholden to God, we can just agree to disagree. But please don't misquote Jesus or take Scripture out of context to bolster your point.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

10:16 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

David, you request "please don't misquote Jesus or take Scripture out of context to bolster your point" of ME, but it's okay for everyone else to do so, why? Because you agree with them? How is my reading, my study, my interpretation any less valid than yours or anyone else's? It's less valid because you don't like what I have to say. The Jesus I grew up with was nice to prostitutes and wanted everyone else to be nice to them. Certainly he'd have no problem with people who love each other being granted legal protections by their state.

Now having said that, of course I don't believe that the Bible should have any bearing on U.S. law. Not only can one use the Bible to support or argue against just about anything (as we are doing), the U.S. is supposed to have a secular government that allows its citizens to practice their choice of religion. Your understanding of Jesus may be totally different from mine, and that's fine (as that happens with all characters in literature). If your religion doesn't allow people of the same sex to be married, then followers of your religion can choose not to get same-sex married. If your neighbor's religion prohibits eating meat, you can eat pork chops, chicken wings, and lamb shank --for breakfast! Does having a vegetarian next door affect your breakfast in any way? No, and neither does having a gay couple next door.

Comment_arrow

David Vancina

11:41 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

"How is my reading, my study, my interpretation any less valid than yours or anyone else's? It's less valid because you don't like what I have to say."
No, it's less valid because it's factually, grammatically, and contextually incorrect. You've mocked believers with nonsensical applications of pre-Christian ceremonial law (dietary, cleansing, etc.). You've claimed the Bible is silent on the issue of homosexuality when this is clearly not the case. And now you say that Jesus was "nice to prostitutes", implying that He didn't really care what they were doing, and that he only wanted others to be nice to them too.

I don't know what Jesus you grew up with, but the Jesus of the Bible was not merely "nice to prostitutes". Was He what we would call today "a gentleman"? You bet. But He also spoke to them about their sin, just like He did every other unrepentant sinner He encountered. He never approved sin, never demurred from condemning it. He called all people to turn away from sin and come to Him as their good shepherd, their Savior. He also preached of hell and punishment for those who insisted on going their own way.

Many in Scripture, looking inside themselves and understanding that they were indeed sinners, accepted His offer. They repented and were changed, from the inside out.

Others insisted they were fine, and didn't need Him. Didn't need to obey His rules. Just like a lot of people today. He's hoping they'll change their minds, before it's too late.

The Guru

11:51 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

how is this considered news about Tinley Park? if I wanted to read this crap I would watch fox news or cnn. By the way, marriage is not a human right, it is a civil right. This is just another faux war that the president has created right before his election to take the focus of his failed policies. Thanks for feeding into it tinley park patch.

Reply

mr lahey

11:51 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Homosexuals represent a single digit percentage of the population, and a single digit percentage of them want to be married. So why all this discussion about something like .04-.1 percent of Americans? Maybe BHO should ask his daughters what to do about the economy instead of what Hollywood wants. This is one of the most blatantly political stances i have ever heard. Dont some of you think this is more about changing/destroying the sanctity of marriage as we now know it?
I think that fits his m.o. more than the desire for equality does..

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

10:19 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

You know what would help with the "sanctity of marriage"? Outlawing divorce.

j.lynn

12:01 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I am a person of faith who is sick and tired of being called a “bigot” or “hater” by the left. This is a tactic used to intimidate good and decent people into surrendering their views. I do not believe marriage should be redefined but this does not mean that I “hate” gay people. They are people just like me and I support their human rights and freedom to live as they choose as long as their choices do not harm anyone. That being said, I have rights too, including my right to believe the Scriptural view of marriage – one man, one woman. And please, if you haven’t read the Bible do not attack what it says! The Old Testament laws changed when Jesus entered history so don’t use the O.T. to attack believers. Gays deal with little or no discrimination these days, but for some, that is not enough - people of faith are now being called to abandon many of their most sacred beliefs. I will support the legal human rights of gay people and will love them as fellow souls on this planet, but I do not feel that means “redefining” marriage. Civil Unions are a viable option that offers a middle ground to ALL Americans. It seems that tolerance runs only one way these days which totally negates the whole concept of tolerance. Unfortunately when politicians and their celebrity sidekicks inject their opinions, it influences and may even intimidate others into going along with the "status quo”. Is that really what we want – the elite making our decisions for us?

Reply
Comment_arrow

Clare O'Connell

1:07 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

i just wish you knew that people in this country have the freedom to believe in whatever they want... they do not have to believe in your religion! and i am a very religious person... i go to church and pray more than anyone i know but i don't try and force it on anyone!

Comment_arrow

Stephenie Plukarski

1:23 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I disagree with your view on several points. 1. You do not support "their" rights because if you did, "they" would enjoy the same rights that "you" do.....including to marry the person you love. That's what equal right this is about. 2. Gays marrying doesn't have any effect on which part of the scripture "you" choose to believe in. 3. Little discrimination is not the same as no discrimination, so as long as there is any, there is discrimination. Kids still killing themselves....and there are still gay bashing incidents reported all the time. 4. No one is asking you to abandon your sacred beliefs. If you don't want a gay marriage, then don't gay marry. If you don't want to attend "their" weddings, then don't go. 5. Tolerance is not the same as equality. 5. Politicians and their celebrity sidekicks? The elite making our decisions for us? Intimidation to go along with the "status quo"? Seriously? Maybe you aren't a bigot or a hater. It's possible. Here's one thing for sure.....gays marrying will have zero effect on you, your marriage, your life or your spiritual beliefs. One thing that is also for sure is...you don't believe in equal rights for all people, no matter how much you say you do.

Comment_arrow

Nolan

3:11 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

You have not read your books well enough. Jesus says several times that the old books are still the true word of god my father, do not dismiss them. The new testaments were written by men because the old one was pushing people away from the belief with all of the "kill this group and destroy that land" kind of speak. The new testament brought in a more kindly gentle god, (until Jesus says "Bring mine enemies before me and slay them").

Cfoam

12:06 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Having your own opinion is great - thinking it is the only one that is right for everyone else is where the bigotry comes in.
I say Tomato you say tamato, I say potatoe your say patato. no matter - they are still the same thing. Any couple that can commit to a life together ups and downs, good and bad, should have the same legal rights under the law <period>. I think that legally everyone should have to get a civil union contract to get the legal rights that go along with the commitment. Think about it, why aren't all sins as described in the manmade, man-written and rewritten, translated bible illegal?? Society has evolved (at least some of us). When it was written maybe the politicians helped influence what it said so they could control the masses? Just put it in the book and say it came from God - people will believe it! I mean he's wasn't around to do any editing was he? Just think slavery and wife beatings among other things would be acceptable again. If you believe in a loving and accepting god or creator of our universe and all things in it, do you really think he/she would have said these things were ok? I don't think so.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Nolan

3:14 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I like what you're saying Cfoam.

CommonSense

12:18 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Gay Marriage? Be careful what you ask for.
Reminder, we live in the USA under a rigorously thought-out Constitution that is the envy of the world. This is about redefining "marriage" at it's core. Is this not obvious?. If we define marriage with an amendment this all gets settled. Our children will forever be affected - it's that important. Study these thoughts:
"'Marriage is a question the Constitution wisely leaves to the people to decide in their respective states.'" - This is quite true. But, the federal judges have taken that power away .
"The Constitution was not drafted, nor was it intended, to turn over marriage and marital policy to the federal courts. But, because some courts have now concluded otherwise, a constitutional amendment is needed to RESTORE democratic balance. Without a constitutional amendment, the Supreme Court - and not the people - ultimately will determine what marriage means. With all due respect to the Court, this is too important a decision to be made by five people in black robes!

"By placing marriage in the Constitution, the judges have taken marriage out of the hands of the people. The judges have done violence to the very idea of a written Constitution, have eroded legislative power, and have significantly expanded their own power. It is now up to the people, by constitutional amendment, to remedy these errors.

"A constitutional amendment is needed, not only to preserve marriage, but to restore constitutional order."

Reply

Russ

1:09 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

@Wa Mama, well said, I especially like your first sentence. I am glad Obama came out for gay marriage and said how he is evolving .I feel that I am evolving too. My church doesn't marry gay couples but, I don't see how gays getting "married" outside of my church is going to hurt me or those that believe in the traditional marriage. After all civil union or marriage is describing the same social event. The couple are officially recognized to be united by the state or if they get married in a church by their God. Is a marriage that takes place by a judge ,a captain at sea or some sleazy chapel in Vegas a holy event or just recognition of uniting a couple.It is all in the eyes of the beholder.
@DeeDee ,if I make it to heaven, I hope all my friends are there, gay and straight or whatever they choose to be, this world would be a boring place without them, not to mention eternity.

Reply

Sara Waters

1:18 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

People don't live their lives by the word of the "bible" they just choose to use it to support their hatred and bigotry. Most 'christian's' don't act very christian-like.

Treat EVERYONE with basic human dignity and do not cast judgement cause well, you're not Jesus Christ, are you?

Reply

Azetbur

1:36 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Who Would Jesus Discriminate Against?

Reply
Comment_arrow

David Vancina

9:38 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Maybe this isn't the place for an eschatology lesson, but maybe it is...

Revelation 20:11-15 And I saw a great white throne, and him [Jesus] that sat on it, from whose face the earth and the heaven fled away; and there was found no place for them. (12) And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works. (13) And the sea gave up the dead which were in it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged every man according to their works. (14) And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. (15) And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.

There will come a time when Jesus discriminates with great finality, and eternal consequences. The "book of life" will contain the names of those who acknowledged and turned from their sin (God's definition thereof, not man's) and asked Jesus to be their Savior.

His discrimination will be based on nothing other than whether one chooses life with Him or sin. Nothing else.

Jessie

1:43 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I say let people do what they want to do, I think that it's inhumane to say to someone that their love isn't worth anything. Let the gay community get married, I don't see what the problem is.

Reply

Pat F

2:07 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Everyone has their own take on issues.. I believe you have the right to make your own choice...I personally don't agree with it but that's how I was brought up. As long as it doesn't cost me anymore tax dollars, do what You want.........

Reply

Megan Gilbert

2:07 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

These results and comments are very disheartening. Gay marriage is a human rights issue. Your personal beliefs and theology have no bearing whatsoever on whether human beings should have equal rights. Marriage is not a religious ceremony, it is a legal contract. You do not need a god nor church to wed. Heterosexuals have already desecrated the "sanctity of marriage", and our "sins" are not weighed beforehand. Thankfully, marriage does not still mean that women are property or blacks can't marry whites... Just like it should not mean you have to possess opposing genitalia. Procreation is not a prerequisite, not every heterosexual couple can or choose to. All of these arguements are invalid in today's society. Your faith may not allow for progress, but a dictionary & this country's foundation does. The seperation of church from state protects everyone's *belief systems* from government intervention and keeps our *rights* secular. They are two very different things. We can believe or not believe as we wish and the Constitution guarantees ALL of us unalienable rights in our attempt at happiness!

Reply
Comment_arrow

Genvieve LaChappele

2:28 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Does it have to be another person?

Comment_arrow

Melissa

4:11 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

You have said everything I wanted to say in a much better way. Thank you. After reading most of the comments I was ashamed that I was living among such hateful people. You've helped me realize not everyone is so small-minded.

j.lynn

2:26 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Everyone take a deep breath! We can certainly disagree without being so disagreeable. All I was saying is that there are two sides to this issue and since we do live in America where people DO have the right to do what they want and believe what they want, we should be able to COMPROMISE. I will apologize to those of you who have been offended by Christians who follow a "do as I say, not as I do" philosophy - I do not like it either, but this philosophy is a HUMAN condition, not a Christian one. If we all look honestly at ourselves, we are all guilty of it as evidenced by the vitriol in so many comments!

Reply

j.lynn

2:49 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Nolan, I am sorry you are so bitter and angry about life. I can find joy in all of life's ups and downs because of my faith - as simple as it may seem to you. I support your right to be an angry athiest, please support my right to believe in a loving Creator (who loves even you in spite of your bitterness). Again, hurtful comments do not benefit anyone. Let's just agree to disagree and keep it polite.

Reply

OakLawnGuy

3:54 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I'd like to know how many Christians who hold man/woman marriage to be the only sinless union are divorced?

Reply

zula 5

4:13 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

All you holy rollers listen up. The Catholic church is a gay haven for priests. Not to mention short eyes!

Reply
Comment_arrow

Genvieve LaChappele

4:36 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

There aren't holy rollers in The Catholic Church. They are very liberal. Wrong church! Pick another!

Comment_arrow

lvent

11:18 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

That's because the hierarchy is really worshipping Satan and they just don't want US to know that....We should have known we should have been sharing Christs last supper not devouring Christs body and blood like a satanic ritual. Don't get me wrong...I learned a lot from my Catholic upbringing. The hierarchy is evil. Esp. Right now. We were warned there would be signs.

Rob

4:28 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Your opinion is your opinion.....but a lot of you act like your god or something........like you know all the answers......Gay marriage is a sin!! Okkkkkkkkkk...not!

Reply

Marianne Claussen

5:16 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Jlynn, you have the right to your beliefs. Now give others the same,right.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Freedom Lover

9:16 am on Monday, February 18, 2013

Everyone has the right to their own opinion. You have no right to make laws against
another Americans right to marry the person they love.

mom

5:18 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Nolan youdo not know what you are talking about when it comes to God's Word. Have you ever read God's Word? Have you ever attended a Bible Study? You sound like your all mixed up. Jesus is Black and White there is no middle ground with Christ. I hope you make the right decision so that I can meet you in heavin and give you a hug! Jlynn is right on target and the left are the intolerant ones!

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

5:53 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I won't see you in heaven, mom, because I'm wearing a poly/cotton blend shirt, I say "damn" like it's going out of style, I've knelt and prayed before statues, I've eaten so much shellfish and pork in my life that it grosses me out to think about (I used to work at Red Lobster, you see). I've also borrowed and lent money, stayed within the village while menstruating, worked on Saturdays and Sundays (including this weekend), told lies ("No, Mom, you didn't wake me, I've been up for hours . . ."), read my horoscope, and if I were a man, you better believe I'd shave my face. My point, of course, is that the Bible is filled with all sorts of laws. Does Jesus care if I mix fibers? No. Does he understand that I have to grade papers on the Sabbath? Yes. Jesus just wants us to be good to each other. I suggest you get over your anti-gay hangup because you do stuff that the Bible says you shouldn't, too.

Comment_arrow

David Vancina

9:43 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

"I won't see you in heaven, mom, because I'm wearing a poly/cotton blend shirt..."
I can't tell if this is just Biblical illiteracy or intentional falsehood. A little honest study before attempting such commentary would reflect well on your integrity.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

10:11 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I'm not making anything up, David. Look it up. Leviticus 19 says not to wear clothing woven of two kinds of material, David, and Leviticus is the same book that lays down the law about "lying with a man." You take one, silly, outdated, B.S. rule seriously, you should probably take them all seriously.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

10:12 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

And, by the way, lesbianism is IN THE CLEAR! Woohoo!

Comment_arrow

David Vancina

10:43 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Male and female homosexuality are both identified as sin. Neither is "in the clear".

Romans 1:21-27 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. (22) Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, ... (24) Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: ... (26) For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: (27) And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

As I've pointed out elsewhere, I believe you are failing to distinguish between ceremonial law and moral law. The former was done away with by Jesus' atoning death and resurrection. The latter are not done away, and are in fact restated and amplified in the New Testament, as above.

As I've also said elsewhere, if you want to assert that the Bible is not God's Word and is not authoritative, fine. We'll just disagree. But if you want to use Scripture to make your point, please do it honestly and knowledgeably.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

11:48 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

David, if you get lesbianism out of the word "unnatural," more power to you. To me, it's a bit vague. And "Moral law" refers to the Ten Commandments, and, last time I looked, "Thou shalt not allow marriage equality" wasn't one of the Ten Commandments.

Comment_arrow

Nolan

7:00 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

mom. Yes I've attended bible study throughout my childhood. My mother beat me with a dogs chain leash or a wooden sword to get me there (good catholic). I became an atheist at age 12 when I became to big for my mother to drag me to church. Now,as a free thinking adult. over the last 30 years I have studied every literary religious text that I can get my hands on and understand the language of. See, as an atheist, I do not believe in all religions equally, where you don,t believe in all except one, your own. An atheist just takes it one god further. Jesus is not black and white, many of the stories in christian books contradict each other over many times. The christian-judao-muslim religious text are all the same stories plagerized from the zoroaster beliefs way before them. I hope you wake up from your delusion soon and live your life for now on this earht because that is the only wonderful thing we have.

Comment_arrow

David Vancina

11:18 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

"...if you get lesbianism out of the word "unnatural," more power to you. To me, it's a bit vague."
Vague? It's called "grammar" and "context". The "likewise" in v.27 links the two ideas (female and mail homosexuality) pretty clearly.

"And 'Moral law' refers to the Ten Commandments..."
No, the Ten Commandments are not the entirety of moral law. In fact, not all ten of the Ten Commandments are moral law. Sabbath-keeping is not required of a New Testament Christian.

What I said before I'll say again... if you want to deny Biblical authority, you're free to do so, and we can just agree to disagree. But you have consistently misrepresented basic Bible concepts -- it's those misrepresentations I have a hard time letting pass.

Homosexuality is sin, according to the Bible. Christians espousing this view are on very solid ground.

mom

5:26 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

People who don't know Gods Word and have just repeated things they heard all their lives are so defensive. The reason why is you just know the truth or what God's Word says. Gee if someone mentions God everyone freaks out. Who do you think lets you wake up and live every day? Do you ever say thank you to Him or think about Him when you are making choices. Gay marriage is an abomonation, but this country gives these people the rights to do almost everything straight folks do. Who do you think is allowing all that?? God!! He gives us free will but at the end when we kneel before Him we will have to answer for our actions, even Christains. Sin is sin and my God is a forgiving loving God. (Thanks to JESUS).

Reply

mom

5:33 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Gee Rob, I can not believe how many people read this Patch and do not know God's word. So if Jlynn mentions God she thinks she is God or Something. You should try a Sunday service somewhere. Sounds like you have been away for awhile. When you know God's true word you can't help but speak up. Christians are way too quiet and have been getting stepped on for far too long . It is time Christians speak up and let the Light of Jesus shine! When this country and it's Athiests took God and the bible out of schools, that is when the down fall of this country started. Something to think about! We are reaping what we have sewn.

Reply

mom

5:35 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Marianne you have your rights!! couldn't you think of more to say? Jlynn is not stopping you.

Reply

Genvieve LaChappele

6:02 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I am disgusted to learn that The President is now selling t shirts and other items promoting gays for Obama. He makes this announcement and the next day has t shirts for sale to promote gays for Obama. He doesn't care about gays. He just is using them to raise money. Remember the ends justify the means. Every thing he does is planned and for a reason. For shame. All of these politicians are the same. None of them are good.

Reply

Genvieve LaChappele

6:15 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

There are asian, hispanic, african-american, women departments in the Obama store online. What happened to just being Americans? Everything President Obama does divides us into groups.

Reply

Hernendo RevolveR

6:49 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Black versus White.... Check.... Illegal immigrant versus legal immigrant..... Check.... Women versus men.... Check.... Rich versus poor.... Check.... Gay versus straight... Check..... Looks like our work is done here Mr. President. On to the election!

Reply

Vinson

7:54 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Gay marriage is unnatural and most definitely a sin, along with adultery,murder, rape etc. God created humans male and female for a reason.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Brian Cosmo

2:13 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

How about "thou shalt not lie"? The divorce rate is 50% in the US. Aren't those who divorce ("till death do us part") and then remarry breaking a sacred vow, henceforth, sinners (in your mind)? Shame on that evil sinner Ronald Reagan!

Marianne Claussen

8:08 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Mom, JLynn would not support my right to marry if I was gay. That was my point. My other thoughts have been expresses,by othet posters.

Reply

mom

8:09 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Denise I have done and sinned way worse than you. Still sin evey day. But thanks to my Savior Jesus I can ask Him to forgive me, I love your sense of humor but your words are harsh. You do not have to answer to me.!!!

Reply

nick

8:44 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

One day in the future the only gay's left in the world, will be skeletons on the ground surrounded by piles of blood stained rocks. All of the 'straight' people in the world will be kneeling on the floor, praying to Allah. And there will be peace on Earth, at least that's what they claim.

Reply

Sara Waters

9:52 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Mom - so you do whatever you want, say Father forgive me and off to Heaven you go. Or so you think.

Reply

STM

3:36 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

If gay merriages were right God would have made two males or two females and there would have been no people in this world.I do not support gay merriages. I am a male and consider myself a lesbian, I love women.LOL

Reply
Comment_arrow

Sara Waters

7:12 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

STM- marriage has nothing to do with giving birth. by that account heterosexuals who do not want or cannot have children have no business getting married. Marriage and Parenting are two different things.

Matt

5:53 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Why in the world does there need to be a 109 comment WAR about something as silly as this subject?

Seriously... this is America I believe every person is entitled to believe what they want, and love who they want, we are free to make whatever choices we want whether it be who we date / marry, whether we commit crimes, whether we sin, whether we believe in God, or whatever reasoning we as human beings do, we are FREE TO DO WHAT WE WILL.

I will say I do believe in God, I'm a Christian, and I have gone to and go to LWCC if anyone knows what that is. But I know there are millions of gay couples in the world. Apparently being gay is a "disease". If it is and if it's a sin, it is. It's up to people to decide if they're gay or not, according to the Bible. Apparently nobody is born gay, but I guess a lot of people just "decided" to become gay.

I don't know if it does, but if somewhere in the Bible it says it's a sin, then apparently it is. I'm straight but that's just me, I don't know if I was born straight or what not but I am now. I love girls and if I get married it will be to a woman.

The bottom line is that it is people's choices to do what they want. Do I think people should be controlled by the Government or some President about who they love? Absolutely not. I stand by our President on his views.

So everyone that's crying about this subject, just vote for Romney and shut up.

Reply

Marty Sherlock

8:06 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Another example of this Presidents lack of leadership.While our government continues to spend TRILLIONS more than it takes in President Obama continues to avoid the many important issues facing our nation. We need a serious leader.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Brian Cosmo

2:15 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

The trillions were spent to basically kill one man, Saddam Hussein. We are paying hundreds of millions in interest on that immoral, unfunded war. But I'll bet you had no problem with that money being spent. Hypocrites like you will be the ruin of this country.

Comment_arrow

Genvieve LaChappele

6:24 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Correct thread sir! He wont talk about the economy. Only issues that divide.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

7:36 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Sure, the President talks about the economy. Here, let me Google that for you.
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=Obama+on+economy

lala

8:07 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

It is hard enough to stay married to a person of the opposite sex. Divorce statistics prove that. Why should gay couples not have the same rights as others? Not everyone in the USA is a Christian so the theory of sin goes out my window. Live and let live!

Reply

al martineck sr

9:07 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

he is no program for his campaign so they throw ---- like this at you. ask him what he has done for the economy ask him why the oil is not being allowed to be drilled
ask him why he is closeing the coal companys.,....
he full of ----

Reply

Kaitlin

9:09 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Wow! Reading some of these comments takes me back to the times of Martin Luther King Jr. And African American civil rights. I cannot believe how close minded some people are. Some of you speak of religion and God. How can you preach about a God who doesn't love all people? God if I remember correctly is supposed to be forgiving and loving and open his arms to all people. Some of you talk of if being a sin. Tell me directly where it says by God that being gay is a sin. The God I was taught to believe in loves all people and accepts all people. All people deserve the same rights. This country was supposed to be built on that idea, equal rights for all people of all different origins and beliefs. We are the melting pot! Back in the 20s women fought for the right to vote, the 60s African Americans stood for the same rights offered to white people, and now gay people want the same rights as straight. This is not a new fight and still we learn nothing from the past. How sad is it that in a world where you can marry your own cousin (North Carolina) you can't marry someone of the same sex? I believe that every single person should have the same rights regardless of skin color, religion, sexual orientation, or anything else that will pop up 40 years from now. And PS Bush put us in debt.

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

10:24 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Well said, Kaitlin. Yes, people will look back on this point in our history with shaking heads, appalled at how long it took for these civil rights.

Comment_arrow

Carmen

2:01 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

lol....still blaming Bush. You liberals are hysterical!!! Obamination has created more debt in 3 1/2 years than all the american presidents before him combined and you still blame Bush! Distractions and distortions are the only way he can get re-elected and he just might succeed in doing that because the american people as a whole are so stupid! Really, when you think about it, you have to be a brainless idiot to vote for Obama a 2nd time. Lets talk about the manufactured war on women, the redefinition of marriage, birth control, and anything else we can think of so people don't remember the economy......because it is all about the economy stupid!

Comment_arrow

Brian Cosmo

2:19 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Carmen

2:01 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

lol....still blaming Bush. You liberals are hysterical!!! Obamination has created more debt in 3 1/2 years than all the american presidents before him combined and you still blame Bush! Distractions and distortions are the only way he can get re-elected and he just might succeed in doing that because the american people as a whole are so stupid! Really, when you think about it, you have to be a brainless idiot to vote for Obama a 2nd time. Lets talk about the manufactured war on women, the redefinition of marriage, birth control, and anything else we can think of so people don't remember the economy......because it is all about the economy stupid!

We are still (and will be for decades) paying interest on Dubya's immoral, unfunded war. So it is a very valid point to bring Dubya into the argument. Anyone who voted for that POS a second time should be ashamed of themselves. Talk about brainless idiots!

Junior Belittle

9:25 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

I can't believe in this day and age people still believe that "God made man and woman." Are you kidding me?? Evolution people, evolution. Science - evidence - FACTS.

Reply

hochap

1:09 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

How many people have my attude, I don't care.

Reply

Mary

1:32 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Marriage between person's of the same sex, goes against the natural order in life, and if a couple is in opposition of what is natural then there will be a lack of spirituality and no joy in the relationship.

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

2:05 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Homosexuality is natural. It has always been natural, across time and across species. Some biologists have noted that during times of abundance for a particular species, there is more homosexual mating, which is a natural way of controlling the population.

Carmen

1:54 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Its disgusting!! Be happy you have civil unions in IL. and shut the hell up! Marriage between the same sex is an sickening and destroys our fabric.

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

2:02 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

"Destroys our fabric?" Man, I am so tempted to make a Santorum joke . . . but instead I'll just ask this: How? How does marriage between the same sex destroy our fabric, Carmen?

Comment_arrow

Debbie

9:56 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

I could not agree with you more Carmen!

Carmen

2:09 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

By letting people think it is acceptable behavior and normal which it is not. It is incredibly abnormal and that is the goal of the homosexual. To slowly indoctrinate our youth into believing it is acceptable and normal! The fact is its not and I know that's difficult for liberals and gays to understand. But any person that would prefer to be with someone from the same sex and never have the ability to procreate should be banished to California. It is an Obamination, I mean abomination.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Sara Waters

7:08 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Carmen - by your account any person who does not have the ability to procreate should be banished? I guess that goes for heterosexuals as well?

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

9:13 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Since people generations before us fought hard to desegregate our country, it's disheartening to see someone suggest a new segregation. (And I, too, am curious if that means that all infertile people and post-menopausal women are supposed to go to California as well. What about people who control their fecundity? Can they stay, Carmen? Think of the divided families! And you call President Obama a divider!)

Anyway, this is futile to say but I feel obligated: People do not choose their sexual orientation. We don't choose to be gay or straight any more than we choose to be right- or left-handed. (Trust me, I spent years trying to write with my left hand. It still looks like a four-year-old's writing! I also tried to will myself gay after a particularly bad breakup. It didn't work).

carole

2:17 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Great response from both sides but...did you call your Mom and wish her a "Happy Mother's Day?"

Reply

Brian Cosmo

2:21 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Carmen seems to have maor problems with spelling, grammar, and most of all, logic.

Reply

Shell

5:25 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Reading some of these posts sickens me. Why are people so against someone loving someone. So what if they are the same sex? Is it cuz you can't find love. I'm all for same sex marriage. It would sadden me greatly if heaven forbid something happened to my son and the person he loved could not be ther to support him like my husband can be there for me. Remember, love makes the world go round!

Reply

Frank Williams

5:27 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

In my view that's really the wrong question. The question should really ask if government should have a role in determining the type and nature of human relationships consenting adults are permitted to enter. I may very well feel that gay marriage is wrong, and gay sexual behavior is sinful, but it is neither the role of government nor the citizenry to determine which Americans may marry and which may not. In the 60's this question could just have easily been asked about inter-racial marriage, and the very same folks who would have voted no to those relationships are likely those using religion once again to denounce gay relationships.

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

7:23 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Thanks for contributing a sane religious opinion, Frank.

Comment_arrow

Genvieve LaChappele

10:05 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Hey Denise, when The President talks about the Economy it is usually divisive rhetoric, like the rich not paying their fair share. When was the last time The President gave a feelgood speech about the fact that this is the best country on earth? Pointing fingers at Republicans, or Congress or the rich. Leaders lead, they don't blame. I'm not arguing that he caused our problems at all. I'm just saying he is never leading, always blaming and pitting groups against each other. Negativity never produces anything positive. He is more than happy to take the ultra rich's campaign donations.

Debbie

9:54 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

I vote "Oppose on Moral Grounds". Gay marriage is wrong, civil unions are wrong, and gay sexual behavior is disturbing. And I stand by my opinions on the subject.

Reply

Steve Barnes

10:48 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

I could care less if there is gay marriage, but don't sit there and blog saying homosexuality is normal and natural. What person if they were not born Homosexual,would want to live that lifestyle?? It is not normal or natural to want to have sex with the same gender if that was true there would be no human race left. So I say do what you want but don't tell me it's normal

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

11:01 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

"What person, if they were not born homosexual, would want to live that lifestyle?" asks Steve Barnes.

Exactly! Hey, someone's catching on! And by the same token, only people who were born heterosexual would want to live THAT lifestyle! And guess what! No one should have to live a heterosexual lifestyle (i.e., live a lie) just because you're not comfortable with who they are.

The Guru

12:48 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

155 comments on this one poll alone, and only 20 where from the editor! Congrats patch for becoming just like every hack job "news outlet" that we have had to endure since the beginning of time. Im not mad about the "debate" over gay marriage, I am mad about the fact that a cleverly run community news outlet has taken its incredibly brilliant idea and soiled it with the typical shock journalism. As I said in an earlier post, what does this have to do with anything going on in our community? The presidents opinion on gay marriage makes no difference to our community. If I wanted to read blatantly left or right leaning new stories just to have every Joe Sixpack come out of the woodwork to debate their political views I can have my pick of every other news source in the world. It twists my stomach into knots to know that an editor of this "news source" has posted 20 times arguing her political views. Has journalistic integrity gone completely down the drain? I beg of you, please do not let yourself go down this road. Utilize this great idea and keep it pure, and leave the debate to us commoners.

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

7:42 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

Hi, C.S.,
Just to clarify-- I am not the editor of Patch. I am not even an editor (although I do have editor permissions). I did not author this article. I do occasionally contribute stories to Patch (you may have seen my gripping opinion piece about saving the U.S. Postal Service). But even if I were, it is Patch's policy that contributors, editors, and readers alike are all invited to participate in discussions. This website is about news, yes, but it's also about community. I found this story like any other Patch reader and was compelled to participate.

Comment_arrow

The Guru

11:27 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

Denise,
Please review the guiding principles of Patch here http://www.patch.com/foundation

I am specificaly speaking to the point of the last guiding principle; "■Patch.org and Patch journalists do not take a political stance on community issues. We do provide a forum for these issues to be explored and debated."

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

12:12 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

C.S.,
I apologize--that's a change that I was not aware of. I went ahead and deleted the one comment I've made on this thread that gave my political stance away (well, it was a hint at my political stance: I had made an offhand comment about how I don't like my tax dollars spent. It's gone now).

You might notice, too, that when the discussion veered toward politics and away from the topic of the discussion, I tried to set it back on track. The topics of this article and thread focus on civil rights, science, even issues of human emotion. I think the biggest problem with the discussion is that people insert politics into the mix. I personally don't see this as a political issue at all--concern for others, the importance of family, love, values, and rights--these issues don't belong to one party.

Tammy Mancini

8:04 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

After reading alllll of these comments, I have to say that most people are not getting what this is really about. This is about RIGHTS people! Everyone should have the same rights, regardless of race, religion, gender, etc. Do any of you realize how many rights gay couples are denied each and every day because they cannot legally marry? I am a straight married woman who has a sister who is gay. For years I have watched her be discriminated against, tormented, belittled by people like YOU who claim to be christians. Let me ask all of you straight people this.. how would you like to have no say in your spouses health care? Be denied visitation of your spouse in the hospital? have to pay an inheritance tax on a house that YOU own when your spouse dies? Pay insurance premiums on an AFTER tax basis?. Not be able to file a joint tax return with your spouse? Have your door busted down and be arrested for sleeping with your spouse? (YES this still happens in some states) Not be able to collect your spouses pension/ social security when they pass? Be denied FMLA? Be forced to testify against your spouse? There are about 1000 more areas I could touch on. NONE of you are affected in any way if this law changes. Educate yourselves before you continue with your psychobabble. No one is asking for "special rights" they are asking for EQUAL CIVIL RIGHTS! Until you are ready to give up these rights, dont deny them to others. period.

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

12:22 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

Tammy,
Well said. You bring up many great points and you're right--we straight people tend to take these rights for granted. Your sister is lucky to have you in her corner, as are all people still fighting for civil rights. Best wishes to you and your family.
-dd

Comment_arrow

prophet12155

8:31 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

right on! perfect reasons by someone with their head on straight! take the religious bs out of this!

kyle alexander

9:09 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

The bible says its wrong and a scientific point of view it is wrong 2 men or 2 men can't reproduce if everyone were gay that would be the end of humans the day our country takes god out of our lives is our downfall we can't just do what we want and feel is right rules have been set for centuries why is it ok right now

Reply
Comment_arrow

D Greg

12:21 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

Poor logic (and poor grammar) in your above statement. Using your argument, the Bible also says it's fine for people to own slaves and treat them as property. Slavery was 'ok' for hundreds (thousands) of years - why ISN'T it ok now?
It's because things change. People and cultural beliefs change.

Comment_arrow

Stephenie Plukarski

12:41 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

If the only reason to marry is to procreate, then why are women beyond child bearing age or men shooting blanks "allowed" to marry or stay married once the "defect" is discovered? Marrying who you want to marry should be a human right. Marrying in a church, any church, or no church, is your own personal choice.The rules have been set for centuries is not a valid argument because not so long ago interracial marriage wasn't "ok". And, centuries ago, people didn't marry for love. They married based on something that was arranged by families without regard for "love". Besides that, not everyone IS gay so the human race isn't in danger of extinction after all. All gays don't NOT believe in God. The country is not taking God out of our lives, but rather making sure you have freedom of AND from religion. Even if anyone really honestly believes that the Bible says it's wrong, well, that's one way to think of it. The Bible and the Constitution are two different documents. God didn't write the constitution. It's supposed to be separate.

Debbie

6:18 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

What I want to know is....
When is the "Heterosexual Pride Parade".

Why do only the GAYS get a Parade in Chicago?

Reply
Comment_arrow

TQ

6:33 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

There are dozens of parades in Chicago every year, so it's just not the 'GAYS'. The 'Gay Pride parade' is not organized by the City, just like the 'Southside Irish Parade' in Beverly. They are sponsored by their communities and the local businesses. If you feel that we as 'straight people' need their own 'Pride Parade' in Chicago, then why don't you organize one ?

Comment_arrow

RobertS

11:39 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Go for it!! Ummmmm...and there are straight people that do participate in the Gay Pride Parade—at least there was in all the years I have been there! I think we should have one for every group!!!

Reality Bytes!

10:51 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

While you are all arguing whether or not being gay is a sin or not, I'm sure our useless leader has circumvented yet more laws by passing more of his "executive orders", but of course we are all supposed to be concerned about his views on gay people.... Wake up people, does it really matter to you what the president thinks of gay people? Not unless you are gay, and it seems there are plenty of you gay people responding frequently and repeatedly. I don't care who is gay and who isn't, I want to know what the diversion was for. Every BS topic like this is just a diversion for another sneaky order to get passed...

Reply
Comment_arrow

Stephenie Plukarski

2:35 pm on Wednesday, May 16, 2012

If this topic bothers you so much, perhaps you shouldn't be part of the conversation. I'm not gay and what the President of the United States thinks about gays isn't a matter of "concern" but, rather, a piece of information in a 24/7 news cycle that never ends. The actual election is a ways away and there are loads of topics that will be discussed between now and then. For every "real" topic there will be "BS" topics as well. But seriously...."a diverson for another sneaky order to get passed"......and "useless leader" and "plenty of you gay people responding", well, those things certainly make it clear that civilized discussion isn't really what''s on your mind. We are all subjected to "news" that we don't give a Rat's posterior over. Take me for example when I discovered via the second page of the Chicago Sun Times that "SURPRISE!!!", Bristol Palin disagreed with President Obama. I said to myself....really? On the second page of the Sun Times like it's important, or news, or important news or something. But, one thing I didn't do was write an opinion piece that I thought that Bristol Palin was just creating a diversion so Mitt Romney's campaign could lie about something else. If you don't think a topic is worth discussing, then for God's sake, stay out of the discussion. Some people have opinions on this very topic that they want aired. One person's diversion for another sneaky order is really just another person's discussion on a matter of importance to them.

Bigmike

7:10 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Go pro streeter!! We have more important things to worry about and should be discussing than this. This president does not want us to remember what a sorry leader he and his administration have been! Let them know in Nov. that we Do.....

Reply
Comment_arrow

Chronicles of Bob

9:29 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Please, so why don't you and prostreet please let me know all of the bad policies our "sorry" leader has? You would rather go back to the days of George? I love how critics today cry of big government. People have issues with gay civil rights or gun laws, but those same people have nothing to say about the "patriot" act? That wasn't intrusive enough for you? No child left behind wasn't big daddy getting votes and telling you what to do? Did you like it in 2004 when the President campaigned on the thought of fear? How many times were we told that "we have not been attacked since 9/11. Don't take that chance, re-elect me, I'll keep you safe."
Of course many of these things are distractions and keep people off of another topic. However, that has been going on for a long time, not just this president. Yes, I know, it's the "lame" stream medias fault. Get a brain!

Comment_arrow

Bob

8:03 am on Thursday, May 17, 2012

David, how much time do you have about Obama's destructive and failed policies?
Economy: We were coming out of the recession when Obama took office, creating a net of over 640,000 jobs per month through a "natural" recovery, then after he passed the ill conceived and destructive "Obamacare" job creation went into the tank. We now have the LOWEST job participation rate in the last three decades, and if we used honest jobless statistics including those who dropped out of the work force, our unemplyment rate would be over 10%. Even using BLS data, our rate of "underemployment" is about 16%. His claims that the "stimulus" would keep unemployment below 8% was clearly a lie. We haven't been UNDER 8% sicne he took office, despite record deficit spending of over $5 TRILLION! He claimed he'd find ways of cutting $500 billion in "waste and abuse" in medicare to fund his program. He hasn't realized a PENNY of those savings in 3 years!

Comment_arrow

Bob

8:06 am on Thursday, May 17, 2012

Foreign affairs: When he took office, the hostile regime in Iran was under pressure from protestors in the streets, and the time was never better to support them and bring real change to Iran, defusing a potentially devastating futuer nuclear war in the middle east. he gave no support to the Iranian protestors, adn teh mocement was crushed. In Egypt, a true friend of the US was inder pressure from Islamic extremists and Obama went all out to support the protesters. They were successful, and now the radical "Islamic brotherhood", which want to institute Sharia law and wants hostile realtiions wiith Israel, is in power. The threat of war in the middle east is MUCH greater now than when Obama took office.

Obama provided military support fro rebels in Libya,who was at the time rather benign in international terrorism and a trading partner with Europe. We supplied bombs and military action on the part of the Isalmaic radical rebels, and now the AL Queda flag flies over Tripoli. He spent BILLIONS putting the authors of 9/11 and dedicated enemies of the US in power there.

I could write a book about all teh failures. mistakes, and bad intent of Obama policies, but others already have. What SUCCESSES of Obama policy can you claim David?

Comment_arrow

Bob

10:51 am on Thursday, May 17, 2012

Heads are now rolling at JP Morgan for losing $2 billion. Obama, against the advice of ALL responsible advisors, gave a $500 million loan guarantee to Solyndra that now the taxpayers will be responsible to pay. He made a bad investment of stock purchase in GM (SOME of the loans have been repaid, but stock values are still BILLIONS less than what Obama bought them for) , and cheated GM bond investors, who by law were supposed to be the first repaid, and gave away most of the equity and value of GM to his campaign contributors in the union. I hope the voters have the same brains as the Morgan shareholders and make a BIG CHANGE AT THE TOP and at the "Board" level (Senate) to get our Federal "corporation" back on track!

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

11:16 am on Thursday, May 17, 2012

The auto industry loans were paid back WITH INTEREST. But more importantly, saving the U.S. carmakers kept American jobs. It was the right thing to do. Solyndra was a mistake, although investing in non-fossil fuel energy in general is a good idea. The JP Morgan loss simply shows the need for regulation (regulations that were dismantled by President Reagan by the way, not Obama). And apparently you've forgotten that TARP was enacted by Bush, not Obama. It should have been done completely differently--the money should have gone to pay off mortgages, not just handed over to banks to sit on and reinvest (poorly, it seems).

When someone sneezes in Afghanistan, it costs more than Obama's Solyndra mistake. At least he was looking toward the future for when the fossil fuels run out and earthquakes caused by fracking have made homeowners' insurance too expensive for most people to carry.

Comment_arrow

Juvenal

11:45 am on Thursday, May 17, 2012

http://content.usatoday.com/communities/driveon/post/2011/11/auto-bailout-losses-expected-to-rise-by-9-billion/1#.T7UqIcX2Qcs

The 23.6 Billion loss on the auto bailouts does NOT include the vast losses to Chysler and GM bond holders, who were denied any return on their investments due to the administration tweaking which moved unions ahead of the bondholders in the bankruptcy payout...

Comment_arrow

Bob

2:02 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

Not an economic major, huh Denise?LOL There's a big difference between money Obama lost on GM common stock and paying back "loans". If you dug a little deeper you'd alos fuind out that GM paid back much of the "borrowed" money from other Federal bailout money!
As far as "saving American jobs" it had just the opposite effect. It actually cut the number of jobs in order to keep inordinately high pay for the senior union members, which COULD have been used to hire more young employees.

The alternative to the Obama bailout would have been going through the bankrupcy process as other automakers have in the past. Union contracts would have been voided, the company would have been able to renegotiate to sustainable levels, there would have been protection from creditors, and failed turkeys like the "Volt" never would have moved forward.
Oh, and bondholders would've been reimbursed per the law.
The only reason the stock was purchased by the Feds( a TERRIBLE idea getting the Feds picking winners and losers in the economy) and the loans were given was that Obama needed to pay off teh unions by handing them all GMs assets, which tehy dutifully returned to him as campaign contributions. It's called "crony capitalism" and it's one of the few things Obama understands in economics!

Comment_arrow

Bob

2:11 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

" it costs more than Obama's Solyndra mistake. At least he was looking toward the future for when the fossil fuels run out and earthquakes caused by fracking have made homeowners' insurance too expensive for most people to carry"
Wow.NOt an engineer or geologist either, huh Denise?LOL We currently have over 100 years of KNOWN reserves in natural gas in the Marcellus shale alone. Earthquakes froom "fracking"?LOL You REALLY ought to get some science literacy before making these kind of claims. There has been NO linkage between fracking and seismic activity. You can't even feel it at ground level, and it';s not happening along any major fault lines. The biggest concern is leakage from the fracking process, but to date there's no evidence that any of the keytones used in the process have leaked into groundwater.
If you think it costs $500 million of taxpayer dollars for every time someone sneezes in Afghanistan...or Washington, DC perhaps you've figured out WHY letting the Federal, State or Local governments manage ANYTHING in teh economy is a HORRIBLE idea. On that we agree!LOL

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

12:36 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Bob, my minor in college was geology. But regardless, I know about fracking because I choose to read and be informed. Earthquakes are indeed caused by fracking. Seismic activity (that's a fancy-pants geological term for "earthquakes") has been linked to the high-pressure injection of wastewater into the reservoir from which the gas was removed. You might Google it. Or you could let me Google it for you: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=fracking+earthquakes

Comment_arrow

Bob

1:48 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Denise, one would hope if you "minored" in geology you'd know that there's a difference between the fracking process and deep well injection, which is done for many purposes, one of which is fracking waste.

"We don't find any evidence that fracking is related to any of these magnitude 3 earthquakes that we have been studying," Bill Ellsworth, the USGS seismologist leading the study of man-made quakes,..."We simply don't see any evidence that fracking is related to earthquakes that are of concern to people."

However, he said there were a few instances when waste water wells, in which chemicals used in fracking are injected deep underground, had triggered seismic activity"

You also should know that currently triggering minor quakes is a desirable condition. The injection of the wastewater doesn't provide the energy for the earthquake, it can provide fault displacement so that it can have low energy slippage rather than a catastrophic "big one". On the San Andreas fault they're digging trenches and creating explosions to release fault energy as a SAFETY MEASURE.

You didn't know we've got CENTURIES of natural gas reserves and you call yourself "well informed?" Case closed!

BTW, I think this is a much more interesting subject than gay marriage!

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

4:48 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Bob, which one is it? That fracking doesn't cause quakes or that it DOES cause quakes, but it's a good thing? You want it both ways. Yes, fracking causes quakes. Vermont has just banned fracking based on research by the USGS, with certainly more states to follow.

The quotation you have from Ellsworth of the USGS states that some specific mag 3 quakes in question were not caused by fracking, however he continues with "the spike in earthquakes since 2001 near oil and gas extraction operations is 'almost certainly man-made.'” The part of the fracking process that triggers earthquakes doesn't matter as no part of the process would take place if there were no fracking. Injecting wastewater into disposal wells changes the pressure, causing seismic activity. There wouldn't be fracking wastewater without fracking. And as for quakes being a "desirable condition" -- tell someone who lives in the middle of the continent whose house is destroyed that it's a desirable condition.

As for the San Andreas Fault, the explosions are done for prediction, not as a "safety measure." They measure and map the seismic waves to see where the epicenter and damage is likely to be when the big one hits.

As for this statement: "You didn't know we've got CENTURIES of natural gas reserves and you call yourself 'well informed?'" Umm, where are you getting that? I never said anything about natural gas reserves.
Source: http://www.ewg.org/analysis/usgs-recent-earthquakes-almost-certainly-manmade

Comment_arrow

Bob

9:31 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Denise, you wrote, "he was looking toward the future for when the fossil fuels run out".I guess you didn't realize that natural gas is a "fossil fuel". It is.

As far as injection, is concerned, its NOT fracking. Rather than the "explosion" from fracking, the pressure is a result of high pressure pump injection, a controlled process.

As far as "minor quakes" from the process in a seismic zone, the impact for the decades this has been going on is minimal, as experts agree. If you think these minor quakes are going to make home insurance unaffordable, compare the seismic risk in the injection zones to those in REAL fault zones like California. Seem like there are quitea few house out there, hmmm Denise?

BTW, using charges for underground exploration throughwave rebound is a very safe and common practice. The blast for stress relief in faults has been going on fro years now. The problem is that just about the only way to minimize large damaging earthquakes is to relieve energy and stress on the faults gradually.

In short, "Many Small Quakes Good, Few Big Quakes BAD"

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

9:46 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Bob, you're just having a conversation with yourself now. You're twisting people's words, creating straw men, and inventing your own science. I can't make you inform yourself and I can't change your mind. There are those who want to look to the future and understand that relying on fossil fuels is not a sustainable system and there are those who believe that further messing with the earth's crust (regardless of how much oil, natural gas, and coal is down there) is fine and dandy. We're different types of people.

Darnell

8:10 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

WANTED

Evil Genius seeks minions to sacrifice their lives in WORLD DOMINATION ATTEMPT. Must be prepared to work 24 / 7 /365
for Fascist Psychopath for no pay. Messy death inevitable but costumes and Laser Death Rays provided!!
NO WEIRDOS!!!!
Call: 1-800- Mwa-haha

Reply
Comment_arrow

Debbie

7:27 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

Get all the Lesbians and gays to sacrifice themselves. Put them on the front lines of the armed forces.

Comment_arrow

Kate Duff

10:07 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

Debbie, your comment is a slap in the face to the families of those gays and lesbians who HAVE served at the front lines and HAVE paid the ultimate sacrifice. Would you tell grieving parents to their face that you're glad their son or daughter died because now there's one less gay or lesbian in the world? I doubt it. But you're coward enough to post it here, under the cover of online anonymity.

Comment_arrow

Deb Morgan-Nelson

2:16 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Kate, thank you for pointing out how easy it is to say anything on here without having to back it up.

I really wonder what kind of person is brave enough to speak their piece but not want to take ownership of their stance. Especially when it is something like what "Debbie" spewed.

Glass Houses folks!

4th wright

11:59 pm on Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Some of the religious people here (of which I am one) seem eager to point out what is and is not a sin, at the same time forgetting that we have been taught not to judge others. It's none of my business who wants to marry whom. If it is a sin for same sex people to marry, I have committed far more other sins in my own lifetime than to presume to judge someone else. I will let God decide later. I think there are far more important issues that we must face as a nation and as a species. This topic has already received far more attention than it should have.

Reply

zula 5

1:07 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

Enough with the gay debate there are far more important things to discuss. This is real silly.

Reply

Debbie

7:21 pm on Thursday, May 17, 2012

My GAY OBAMA Newsweek came today! A Collectors item for sure

Reply

laura

9:19 am on Friday, May 18, 2012

Ohh, pulleeze... this friend of mine says she is a born-again Christian... and is on her fifth marriage! Oh, and she opposes gay marriage. Hmmmm, what's wrong with that paradigm. Incredible hypocrasy. If two human beings are devoted to each other and love one another, as some Christians would point out: WWJD? Who are we to judge? (..."cast the first stone, etc.")

Reply

Genvieve LaChappele

11:16 am on Friday, May 18, 2012

Dont bother arguing with denise. She drinks the kool aid. Some loans have been paid back some have been given back with worthless stock options. GM is not a winning proposition. Yes, the bankruptcies were illegally restructured to benefit the unions. Some of the bondholders that got screwed were union members also. That isnt the point. Everything this administration does is manipulated to fit their agenda. I love how she rationalizes solyndra. What a joke. I bet she is smart enough to think a used bookstore could flourish in Homewood.

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

1:00 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

I'm trying to transition to green tea, actually. Har! Genvieve, you might want to look up which administration approved the auto bailouts/TARP. Hint: The answer is not Obama's. And as far as these worthless stock options, I'd like to see a source on that because all the data I'm seeing show both GM and Chrysler paid off their debts with interest. And even more importantly, the bailouts brought jobs back to Michigan! In additional, the Energy Independence and Security Act of 2007 (yes, another piece of legislation from the Bush Administration) brought auto manufacturing jobs from Mexico to Michigan and Tennessee (Ford and Nissan, respectively). Deregulation collapsed the economy, but at least Bush put plans in motion to prevent complete devastation (which then, of course, the Obama administration was compeled to continue). We make so little stuff here anymore, it's a good thing there is still an American auto industry.

Comment_arrow

Bob

2:03 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

"Deregulation collapsed the economy"..Abolutely wrong again, Denise! what collapsed the economy was that Barney Frank and ilk corrupted the financial markets by politicizing giving approval for bank mergers to serve as a way of givng his low income constituency undeserved credit. Once he expanded Fannie and Freddie to massive levels to take bad debt from local banks and lenders, the seeds of destruction were sown.

This dsiaster was very avoidable, and would've been except for Federal corruption. If Fannie and freddie had reigned in and limited, the housing market never would have been overheated and overpriced, and if he would have laid the risk for bad loans to the lenders rather than promoting subprime "bundling" we would have had a sane housing market and any "bubble" would have been a minor one. EPople could have afforded housing when they'd saved enough for it, and people wouldn't have been enticed into borrowing more than they could afford and spending it irresponsibly. Those Mercedes dealerships in California were seeling product like crazy to people whose income couldn't justify the purchase, but interest rates were so low that they fell to the temptation. We knew the financial situation was going off the cliff and fundamentals were bad, but the government kept it going because the banks and unions kept giving them their "cut" and gave them fat salaries like folks like Rahm Emmanual who were supposed to be watching things.

Comment_arrow

Chronicles of Bob

2:29 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Bob, she is partly correct as are you. Your answers aren't the end all Bob. You are so arrogant. The housing market burst peaked in 2007. The recession hit it's peak in 08-09. Your own republican and democratic leaders assigned blame to high risk loans, major conflicts of interest and major lack of regulation of wallstreet. What was this current administration to do, wave a magic wand? There were dozens of factors and the repeal of glass-seagull in the late 90's was the start of the poor deregulation choices. there should have bee more regulation not less. When you deal with wallstreet and corporations, you then deal with greed. You can't cross your legs and hope these people will do the "right thing." They never will. It has nothing to do with party!

Comment_arrow

Bob

9:18 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

You're right, Russ. After the Dems took control of the House and Senate in the 2006 elections (and took power in 2007), the lack of appropriate action by the banking committees "burst the bubble" in the housing industry. What Obama needed to do was to stabilize the economy by enacting policies that reduced economic uncertainty for investors. He did exactly the opposite with his danger ridden and dishonest passing of Obamacare. That created a chilling effect on the investing economy.His anti-growth policies made investing in the US a "bad Deal" and trillions were sitting on the sidelines or being invested overseas.

His meddling the private economy, like breaking the rules by stiffing the GM bond holders, cheating the taxpayers by overpaying for buying GM stock, and hindering energy resource growth spread the housing recession to the rest of the economy. It was the "textbook" way to kill the economy. Fortunately, he only severely injured the economy, he didn't kill it.

A change in the White House next year could get the economy off of life support and bring it back to health. Let's hope that voters can overcome the deficiencies of their public educations and figure that out!

Comment_arrow

Chronicles of Bob

11:01 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Russ? I'm not Russ. But thank you for putting your own spin back on.

sweet heart

12:00 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Gay marrige! no way that a sin. Why would you want to wake u[ to the same sex in the moring yuck! Are they just born gay or they see something on tv that other people can try it, How you like yo go to church and see to gay people holding hand:s with each other, That scarey. I,run from both of them and start laughing.

Reply

Russ

1:19 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Bob,
Your posts are a waste of time.Your assumed expertise and facts are incorrect and laughable.There is no use in wasting time to prove your wrong ,because you will never accept the truth, to bad for you.

Reply

Bob

1:27 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Russ:
Your post makes no sense, it provides no reason or facts, has no logical point and we are all less informed for reading it. May God have mercy on your soul! (with apologies to "Billy Madison"LOL

Reply
Comment_arrow

Russ

6:31 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

thanks for the request to God Bob,right back at you.I'll raise you one with have a nice day!

Stephenie Plukarski

4:42 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Barney, Fannie and Freddie did not collapse the economy. It's just not true. The union stuff is not accurate either. If you think the unions fared well in this debacle you are mistaken. The loan bundling and rate baiting and switching and the fraudulant selling and reselling of bad debt had been going on unchecked for a long time. The banks knew what they were doing & which regulations had no teeth. They also knew that they would get away with it for as long as things kept appreciating. The problem caused more by people refinancing their homes to improve lifestyle, and have their home "work for them" & not so much by new buyers. So called "liars loans" and banks like Countrywide having their appraisers bring the value in high so the loan could be as high as possible so the banks cut was as high as possible without any of their own skin in the game & then they dumped the debt on someone else and made more money. Their sweet deal caved in on them when values decreased. No refinancing now because they were "underwater". If you can still afford your payments and plan to stay, it's only a "paper loss". But when your fixed for 3 or 5 or 7 adjusts to whatever the fine print you never really understood in the loan that was pushed on you because the bank made more money from THAT particular loan, and you can't afford it, refi out of it or sell it, it's a real loss. Except, the Bank doesn't lose. & that little story doesn't even touch upon the Stock Market and those creeps.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Bob

8:56 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

First of all, nobody "pushed" loans on anybody. People wanted cash, they saw a means of getting it whether it made sustainable economic sense or not...and they took it. That's a matter of personal freedom, just like the gay lifestyle. Many made bad decisions, they got the benefits, and now THEY should have to live with the consequences of their choices. I agree with you about the inability to refinance for homes that were "underwater". Banks had a choice of reducing rates to the market for a loan....and DIDN'T.

One critical point here is that with all this funny business going on in the financial markets there were huge and very expensive government bureaucracies which had the responsibility to oversee and revise the rules if the way the system was operating was leading to disaster, as it was.

Why did they fail?Ask Chris Dodd (D) who was getting sweatheart deals form Countrywide, or Barney Frank (that brings us back to the "gay" topic-LOL) who was getting massive contributions from Wall street and the banking industry.

BTW, when this meltdown started and the bubble burst(after the Dems took over the House and Senate, the branch of government responsible for regulating banks, in 2007) Barney Frank was publically out there saying there was "no problem".

This couldn't have happened without politcal corruption and mismanagement of Fannie and Freddie, as well as Wall Street payoffs to Dems to keep "hands off" the bundling and "liar loans" exacerbated the problem.

Stephenie Plukarski

5:11 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

none of which has anything to do with the actual topic in this thread....

Oh yeah, one more thing - it is fixable, but the banks aren't working to fix it. So, it's caused by them and still unfixed because of them. They need regulation. They are NOT good guys. Real regulation with real consequences for deliberately doing what is not right, which they are STILL doing.
And you can rudely say that I don't know what I'm talking about, or insult the major and the minor and be flip about koolaid but oh well, it still doesn't make you right. I'll pass on GM and Solyndra because, well, this thread is about a different GM: Gay Marriage

Back to the real topic: If you don't like gay marriage, don't gay marry. It's almost amusing how many folks want less regulation unless it involves regulating women's bodies and gay's lives. Almost amusing. Not actually amusing.

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

5:41 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Once again, you're right on, Stephenie. It is funny (sort of) how this discussion veered from personal freedom (the right to marry the person you love, which hurts no one) to the freedom of gas & oil companies to do something so devastating to the earth that it causes earthquakes and people's tap water to be flammable, which could actually hurt people. And we know how the banks hurt people, are still hurting people.

Some people speak up for less personal and sexual regulation while some people choose to speak out for fewer environmental and banking regulations (and a few speak up for both). You're right; it's not amusing. It's sad.

Comment_arrow

Bob

9:07 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

That "don't gay marry" crack is nonsense, Stephanie, and you know it. If Gay marriage results in extra benefits for gays, we are going to be forced to pay for it.

Got any suggestions under which gay marriage would not increase costs to the taxpayer or consumer, and that gay lifestyles would not be promoted in our schools?

Figure out a way to accomplish that, and I likely wouldn't object. I've always believed that people should have the freedom to do what they want, as log as it doesn't infringe or damage the rights of freedom of speech, action, and property of others.

Of course, getting more money from others and propmoting the gay lifestyle to children is what this is all about, isn't it?

Bob

9:01 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

To bring this back to the original subject, if "gay marriage" is made legal, does anyone know how much the extra benefits will cost the taxpayers, and have a suggestion of what programs should be cut in Illinois to pay for them? The money isn't just going to "magically appear", it'll have to come out of someone's pocket.

..and PLEASE don't use that nonsensical old bromide, "The Rich". Someone's going to have to sacrifice for gay marriage benefits...WHO?

Reply
Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

10:04 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

"I've always believed that people should have the freedom to do what they want, as log [sic] as it doesn't infringe or damage the rights of freedom of speech, action, and property of others."
1. Bob, speaking out against marriage equality is damaging to the freedom of others.
2. Promoting the "gay agenda" (if it actually existed, which it doesn't) would be freedom of speech.
3. Marriage costs the government tax revenue in joint filing, but it saves taxpayer money in things like spousal healthcare benefits. It all comes out in the wash. But by your logic, if marriage is so expensive, perhaps we should do away with it altogether. But allowing some people rights that are restricted from others is a textbook example of an unjust law. When a majority creates a law that only applies to a minority, that is an unjust law. A country that prides itself on freedom, fairness, and liberty should not have unjust laws. I think if you read Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s letter from a Birmingham jail, you'll understand the difference between unjust laws and just laws.

Comment_arrow

Chronicles of Bob

11:03 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Based on Bob's posts he is racisit and pretty much a sexist... Knows everything and wants everyone to know it. So none of what anyone says will be accurate to him.

Comment_arrow

Stephenie Plukarski

8:34 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

You are wrong about loans not being pushed on people. Loan brokers made a lot more money putting people insome loans rather than other loans. You are wrong about people being given enough information about the types of loans they were ending up with, which makes their "personal choice" not really something they would have chosen had they even realized they had a different choice. The government agencies were being deliberately defrauded. One sweetheart deal to Chris Dodd, which was really just a discounted regular loan for is not what brought the downfall to the housing market. Good try tho. And, "don't gay marry" is not a crack or nonsense. It's NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS who wants to marry unless YOU are one of the marriers. You are delusional thinking that equal rights is about getting more money from others and promoting a gay lifestyle to children. I don't know what the actual costs vs benefits are, but the number of people involved aren't changing. They'll still be paying income taxes, property taxes, insurance premiums and sales tax. They'll be buying marriage licenses, furniture, houses, cars, goods, services just like real non-gay folks do. Who pays for their stuff? You believe straight people should have the freedom you are talking about. Gay people are not infringing on your rights. You are infringing on theirs. A gay person marrying another gay person does nothing to infringe on your rights. If you think it does, there is something wrong with you.

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

11:05 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Stephenie makes a great point. Gay people have to pay for stuff, just like straightos do. In addition, weddings are great for the economy! Think of it all--invitations (postage to help the USPS!), dresses, formalwear, caterers, gift registries, hotel stays, travel (plane fares, car rentals, gasoline), booze, updos, manicures & facials-- all of this costs major buck, and I haven't even gotten to showers, bachelor/bachelorette parties, and honeymoons yet! And then, for some, marriage counseling, and then, for half of them a few years down the road (or days, if you're a Kardashian), divorce lawyers. So you see, Bob, marriage equality is a lovely thing. It could be just what this economy needs, and everyone deserves a crack at it. Maybe we straight people will learn a thing or two from same-sex couples--hey, at the very least, we know a gay couple actually want to be married and don't have to get married, if you catch my drift. (And for that matter, we know all of their children are wanted and planned).

Comment_arrow

lvent

5:48 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

The banks and Wall Street became extreme predators with their debt....1 in 4 mortgages were Liars loans ....loans that set us up to fail. Google articles and interviews with ex banking regulator Bill Black. He helped send over 1000 banksters to prison after the S & L CRISIS of the 80s....The FBI blew the whistle on the bank mortgage fraud in 2008 to the Bush Administration...the fraud got worse. That is because the politicians and their friends were all getting richer and richer from the SECURITIZATION SCAM.....AND STILL ARE.....CatherineAustin Fitts worked for HUD or FHFA under the Bush administration and tried to stop
it and had death threats made on her.

Comment_arrow

lvent

5:50 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

TYO ERROR....THE FBI BLEW THE WHISTLE ON THE BANK MORTGAGE FRAUD IN 2004...! SO SORRY...I DIDNT SEE THAT ERROR?

laura

10:00 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

I'm wondering how germaine this concern really is.... if you think about it, we then might fret about how many current live-in domestic partners (of either persuasion) will decide to legally tie the knot. What additional resources do they consume or no longer fund simply because they became legal? So, what cost is there to the economy? I'd say probably little to none except perhaps a federal tax break to people who have been paying taxes all along anyway. Any accountants in here who might shed light on this "issue?"

Reply
Comment_arrow

laura

10:09 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

To Denise: GREAT post! Thank you for summarizing my own thoughts so succinctly! We CAN NOT ever go back to rationalizing the denial of basic rights to a particular group and thereby discriminating against them simply out of fear wrought from ignorance. This isn't, happily, 1963 or 1968 again. And yes, I remember BOTH years quite well!

Comment_arrow
Patch_comments_icon

Denise Du Vernay

11:15 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Thanks, Laura. It's great to hear and it's great to NOT feel only on here. (Hi, Russ, David, and Stephenie). I don't remember the 60s (I was born in the 70s) but I do remember 2000, and I'm with you on this. There is no justification in denying rights to any group. I DO think a Civil Rights Act of 1964-style piece of legislation is forthcoming.

Russ

2:24 am on Sunday, May 20, 2012

I hope your right Denise and thank you for your level headed commentary.

Reply

Genvieve LaChappele

8:59 am on Sunday, May 20, 2012

Now lets talk about how shady the chrysler bankruptcy was! I know this was supposed to be about gay marrage but denise is spreading misleading information. Only parts of the taxpayer debt has been repaid.

http://www.advancingafreesociety.org/2012/02/07/american-airlines-shows-the-corruption-of-obamas-gm-bailout/

Reply

Ed

7:19 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I believe that individuals have the right to believe in gay marriage but I also believe that individuals have the the right not to believe in gay marriage.

God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve........

Reply

lvent

10:39 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I agree with the U.S.C..equal rights for all. What I don't agree with is the way the Politicians only use the LAW OF THE LAND....THE U.S.C. .....when it fits their AGENDA. However, this does not make me want to dine in a Corporate chain restaurant any more or less than usual. The politicians are a bunch of clowns who make all of US look stupid for falling for their manufactured crap.

Reply

lvent

11:08 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

To take a peek into the mind of the elite....read 50 shades of gray...They are control freaks who use you up and give you nothing of value in return.

Reply

Voice

11:21 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I know my comment may just be washed over with all the other comments in here, but I want to share my 2 cents.

I do not support gay marriage nor anyone in politics who does. That doesn't mean that I am discriminitory against the LGBT community. I have no right to hate on them, but my beliefs dictate that I cannot support that lifestyle. I also believe that the government is getting to involved in something that they shouldn't be involved in in the first place.

As far as those who are pulling verses out of the Bible out of context: the Bible reads as one book, not in parts or sections. There were rules that existed in the old testament that are moot today because of what is revealed in the new testament. I will not go into a theological lesson, but before any you start misusing and misquoting old testament verses, please see what the theological interpretation is in context of the Bible as a whole story.

Reply

lvent

11:36 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Many don't realize they are manipulating our DNA with those vaccines and other enviromental toxins. A closed mind is a dangerous mind. What if your child told you they were gay and wanted to get married? I believe in God and his word however, I also believe we should leave the judgement up to God. He knows way more than we do.

Reply

RobertS

11:44 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I think the gay community has to realize one thing—the best way to fight ignorance is to ignore it, just like the child that misbehaves... If you hate homosexuals—go ahead! If you hate African-Americans—go ahead! Hate Jews—go ahead! Hispanics—go right to it! When you think about it, no one knows what really happens after we leave this Earth; how will we be judged? How will we be remembered?

I used to hate heterosexuals—couldn't stand the sight of them, but then I realized, they make baby homosexuals—like it or not—they do!!! So I embraced them! Go ahead all you good Christians, make your babies, you're making babies of all sorts, not just straight, black, asian, etc. ALL KINDS!

Reply

Billable Hours

12:32 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I could really care less what people do behind closed doors as long as they dont hurt anyone else. Gay marriage really doesnt bother me, but its when they want to start having kids I'm still on the fence. Its not that I believe gay couples cant be amazing parents, but its the whole nature vs. nuture debate. Does a child brought up by a gay household have a predisposition to homosexuality? I truly believe we dont know that answer!

Reply
Comment_arrow

RobertS

1:07 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Okay... Ummmm... think of it this way, a straight couple produces a gay child; did the parents sexuality influence their childs? Nope!! We DO KNOW the answer, READ!!!! If a gay couple raises a child, perhaps the child may be more open-minded; but don't we want our childrent to be that way? Children don't see race, sexuality, or whatever, it takes the parents to point it out to them...

I love straight people's ignorance, it's only until they have become friends with a gay person or until one is in their family do they really open their eyes, and then they see the world more objectively... Rosie O'Donnell is raising children, none of them so far have been determined gay, lots of gay people are raising straight children—perhaps the world will become a better place?!

Comment_arrow

FlossmoorMom

3:18 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

@RobertS You crack me up and you're so right...I'm so thankful to have several awesome gay friends, and if any of them ever wanted to have kids, I'd be the first one to throw them a baby shower!

Comment_arrow

Billable Hours

4:14 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

So you're saying that because hetrosexual parents have maybe less than 5% of kids that are gay you can say with 100% certainity that the parents sexuality doesnt affect there kids sexuality? Thats amazing and so simple! Can you please tell me the answers on capital punishment and abortion too? You have such a way so simplifing complex concepts! My favorite parts of your arguement were "PERHAPS the child will be more open minded" and Rosie's kids "SO FAR have not been determinded gay" when we should KNOW BY READING the answer already. What we see and learn from our parents does affect us! Whether its being polite, drinking, abuse, reading a lot, sports....etc. Don't be so ignorant to believe it doesnt!!!!!

Comment_arrow

RobertS

5:06 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

@Billable Hours:

The actual number of homosexuals is approximated at 10%. I cannot say with 100% anything; can you? I have learned from many years that you cannot have a reasonable debate with certain individuals, I walk away from those people, I have much better things to do with my time. Sexuality is not a learned behavior such as smoking, drinking, abuse, etc., it's instinctual, the majority of little boys do not see their male role-models looking at nude women and learn masturbation—it's instinct, unless they lived in one pervy household!

Yes, we learn alot of behaviors from our parents—bigotry, manners, tobacco use, sports, etc., but sexuality is indeed instinct. We all feel the attraction to those we choose as mates and we follow that instinct, ideally we find happiness and acceptance. I am not simplifying anything... I am entitled to my beliefs, and you are entitled to yours.

Have a great day!

Comment_arrow

Bob

8:02 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Robert S, that 10% you're quoting is based upon a discreditied study made of prison populations, where, well, you know there aren't a lot of people of the opposite sex available. In the general population, the numbers I've read are bewteen 2 and 4%.

Comment_arrow

Bob

8:04 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

I believe there are LGs by "preference" and LGs by genetics. I think most of us known a woman at some time or another who had extremely masculine characterisitcs biologically, and men who had feminine physical characteristics. I can understand how these "tweeners" have a hard time finding out to which team they belong, and they go where they're most accepted.

Others, however, have all the right hormones working for their gender, but due to either failed or abusive hetero relationshsips in their past, they switch teams even though they have had noraml relatinos with the opposite gender and have had children through these relationships.

Either way, I strongly believe that the LGBT team mates have every right to engage in any realtionships they want, so long as it is with adults of capacity.

I don't think those relationships are either societies or governments business.

Remember, there are no conservative posters here that support the return of sodomy laws and infringement of the freedoms and liberty of the LGBT community.

The problem for most of us occurs when that community attempts to force us to legally legitimize and approve of such relationships and add new entitlements and and entitlement rights and public education promotion, and subsidize these birdens against our will.

Comment_arrow

RobertS

8:42 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Bob:

I am done with this thread...it has take too much of my time and again, we're all entitled to our beliefs, only after we leave this Earth will we know how we are judged. As a gay man I live the battle and I will continue to fight it until we have the same rights as everyone. I don't care what the ratios are, I don't care about peoples misconceptions, I don't care about how religion, politics, stupidity, etc. play into equal rights for everyone in this fine country, I just care because everyone should have the right to be proud of who they love, share benefits, and live a fulfilling life.

A friend of mine has told me several times that I walk with rose-colored glasses regarding peoples view on homosexuality, I had really believed that society has changed—unfortunately he was right, there are a lot of narrow-minded people in the world and nothing is going to change them—nothing.

I pray for the children of those with narrow minds, I pray that they will not have to be ashamed if they are gay, I pray their family will accept them, and I pray—like many of us, that we see 'the better day'. At times I reflect on the spectacular life Martin Luther King Jr. and realize many minorities have to fight to get justice, and although we may not all be there when the time comes, it will happen!

Live, Love, Laugh... I am done on this thread! Take care!

Comment_arrow

warnerkr

9:35 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Bob, your ignorance is on display like the feathers of a male peacock at the heart of mating season. Only people who have never known a homosexual person well (as a friend, rather than a mere acquaintance) would say that it is a choice, or something they opt for because they don't fit in elsewhere. My advice to you - take the time to have a real conversation (not a debate!) with someone who is homosexual. Seek to understand - without judgment or ridicule. I know you'll probably never do that and it makes me sad for you, but your "opinion" is coming from an uneducated and naive place and it is making you look foolish.

Julie Roberts

12:32 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Hey! All the straight couples are PRODUCING the gay babies. Ban straight couples having kids - lol!

Reply
Comment_arrow

RobertS

1:09 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Lord knows, many of them should stop having kids!!! I can't believe how some of these kids act in public and their parents don't think twice... unreal!! These kids are the future leaders, or the future morons—folks, learn to take some responsibility, otherwise get a vasectomy or go on the pill!!!

Comment_arrow

lvent

5:35 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

To much media influence..Last night Nightline was discussing Nicky Minaj very young fan base. Parents are allowing their young children to listen to rap? WOW..! They interviewed Ms. Minaj and she was shocked at that herself. She said her music was not meant for ages 3 and up. She also promoted woman being independent financially because her mother was abused. Well ...good luck with that philosophy..plenty of career women get abused or murdered by their husbands. Control freaks always find a way to control. If you want to be independent don't get married.

lvent

1:49 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

People are going to believe what they are going to believe mostly because they have been being brainwashed their whole lives. They can't wrap their heads around even the remote possibility that things are not always so cut and dried. It makes the mundane possible. How do you create a country that thinks its free country but is really full of slaves? Make them believe a lot of lies, Then you can keep secrets, deceive and defraud them. Give them some porn ..lotto ....let them vote every few years....some booze....an occassional vacation.....and lots and lots of boogey men and bank debt fraud
to repay. The control freaks got this figured out. Too bad ALOT of us don't.

Reply

Baba Wawa

6:45 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

How about keeping religion out of EVERYTHING, mainly legislation and people's civil rights.

Reply
Comment_arrow

RobertS

8:31 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I wish it was so that easy, unfortunately, it seems as though all the world's religions entangle themselves in daily life.

Comment_arrow

lvent

8:50 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

We are all born into this war created by people who are control freaks who can't just let people live their lives. They are always looking for a pound of our flesh.

lvent

7:04 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

The control freaks have a hard time with that. They use religion and the U.S.C. only when it suits their agenda.

Reply

vicky

8:04 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

I personally oppose gay marriage but will not ridicule someone who supports gay marriage or anything else we don't agree on. This country is more divided than ever
on everything. You can't express yourself anymore without being pounced on by
people who don't share your views. I'll speak out even more so I won't be silenced but don't direct it at anyone personally.

Reply
Comment_arrow

lvent

2:49 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Unfortunately Chronicles of Bob the politicians, and the money changers, the power elite still have us blaming the victims of their crimes. For example, how many Americans still believe the BIG LIE that this manufactured economic crisis was caused by people who bought homes they could not afford? The TRUTH IS...as Ex banking regulator Chris Whalen stated that 1 in 4 mortgage"loans" were LIARS LOANS....IN OTHER WORDS...they SET US UP TO FAIL. That was not even the cause of financial crisis...the real cause was the $1.2 quadrillion in debt the money changers created with our electronic signatures. We were simply robbed of all of our wealth in the manufactured stock market collapse in 2008 and the Patriot Act allowed the banksters and the politicians to hide all of our stolen wealth in their overseas bankster accounts...The traitor politicians handed all of US the banksters tab in the form of ONGOING BAILOUTS to the TBTF. BEWARE THE DECEIVERS...THE BANKS DONT LEND...THEY ARE THE BOROWERS AND THE BIGGEST DEBTORS TO US IN HISTORY...THEY OWE US GAGILLIONS...CHECK OUT SOME REAL NEWS YOU CAN USE AT ALTERNATIVE MEDIA SOURCES SUCH AS: http://www.4closurefraud.org/..

Comment_arrow

lvent

2:51 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

STOP THE FORECLOSUREGATE COVERUP....!

Chronicles of Bob

9:24 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

This country is not more divided than in the past. Those are BS, media dirven lines to feed the fear. Past generations have had just as many polorizing issues as now. In my opinion you can even argue more so in the past. Socially we all evolve and things we have come a long way and continue to do so. We all suffer from a very short memory... or lack there of...
I love the whole "our fore fathers" mentality... yeah, lets go back to where people were lynched for dating a white girl, where you may choose suicide over coming out that you are gay, or drinking out of a water fountain can be cause enough to get your ass beat.
Yes, there are issues and debates, but they are no worse than in the past.

Reply

RobertS

9:33 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

@ Chronicles of Bob:

I totally agree!!! I think the way we receive our news and disseminate the info has changed, we are communicating to a larger audience and that is a great thing—it opens people up for discussion and exchange.

Reply
Comment_arrow

vicky

1:41 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

I agree with discussion & exchanges between people, most people don't know how to be civil when discussing a hot topic. @Chronicles of Bob, I don't want anyone lynched or anyone committing suicide. Would never want to be associated with anyone who
thinks like that. That's what I mean.........

Comment_arrow

FlossmoorMom

1:50 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

THIS. News and opinions are so much more accessible these days...the founders of our country got their news by horseback and letters shipped from Europe...the other difference is that people now can have an opinion from behind an anonymous screen name. (Yes obviously I am guilty of this, but I do this for work reasons.) This makes people more comfortable in expressing their opinion, whether they are voicing their opinion civilly or not. I think it has it's plus sides and minuses...it certainly disheartens me to see how much hate there is...but there also seems to be a lot of love too..

Chronicles of Bob

1:19 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Robert, i truly believe, well i pray, that the loudest talker is usually the minority belief. If the majority is like Bob then we all in troubl gay or straight ... the know it all mentality of people like him is laughable. I will never know what its like to live in a gay persons world or black one, or a womans and so on. .. but i do know they want and deserve the same rights as anyone else has.

Reply
Comment_arrow

RobertS

1:56 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Amen!!! We can all pass judgement, but until we walk a mile in someones shoes, we cannot imagine their lives, until we change the color of our skin, our gender, etc., we simply need to love those around us. In the end, only kindness matters.

June Whitehand

2:08 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Ok, my understanding of the Bible leaves the judging to GOD.

That being said, why do we utilize a religious ceremony as a legal contract in a country founded on freedom of religion and self determination?

I feel we would all be better served with everyone (regardless of sexual orientation---or lack there of) had to enter into a "domestic relationship contract" through the government to apply for insurance benefits, tax preferences, etc. This document would replace the "marriage license" that churches currently require before performing the religious ceremony. Churches should be free to perform any religious ceremony without the government's input.

Reply

lvent

3:00 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

We need to WAKE UP..Because, while they are distracting US with issues that are afforded all Americans under the UNITED STATES CONSTITUTION...They are stealing your rights, wealth, property, freedom and your country right from under US..

Reply

lvent

3:05 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

When THE TRUTH is PENDING APPROVAL in the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA..the 'FREEIST' nation on earth then the entire world is in trouble and so are we.

Reply

lvent

3:15 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

The local "news" is reporting that the FDIC took over Waukegan bank. Don't believe the failed "failed bank" meme..It is another sham and another fraud to make us believe the banks are broke...this is a bank balance sheet recession as many banking and financial experts have stated. The banks are NOT broke....they have quintillions of our wealth hidden overseas....Remember when Obama said he believed in spreading our wealth around? They are simply robbing US. out of existance..Remember..all banks are really on giant corporate Government bank..THE WORLD BANK and they are NOT BROKE...THEY ARE ROBBING US of everything...our rights, our wealth, our property, our freedom and our country..They are stealing our NATIONAL SOVEREIGNTY for their debt . The TRUTH IS...THEY OWE WE THE PEOPLE GAZILLIONS IN ORIGINATION FRAUD AND USURY FRAUD...!

Reply
Comment_arrow

lvent

3:20 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

They have all dishonored US.

lvent

3:17 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

http://www.maxkeiser.com/ Call the White House, call your Senators and Congressmen and tell them we the people know they are all LIARS.

Reply

Carin

8:06 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Gay Marriage. It's just like your marriage, only Gayer.

Reply

Carin

8:07 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

How does a person call themselves a "Patriot" but feel Americans should not be treated as human being? Explain that.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Alan Perkaus

9:06 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Carin: If that is your real name May I ask you just what you mean by your last question. I have in the past few days wondered just where you come up with such Off the wall questions, Accusations and statements. Please feel free to enlighten all of us with your wisdom.

Mo F'n Kena, Son!

9:32 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Yall trippin let dem frooty booties do wat dey want. Just cause dey got suga in da tank dont mean itz none of yall biznass. Mind ya biznass just mind ya bizznass....SON!! (Rick Ross "god forgives i dont" droppin 7/31

Reply
Comment_arrow

anthony

7:46 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

lol although i view his beard as lovely as a Mohawk scalp He is the only guy i know with images of George Washington and Abe Lincoln on his chest Tribute to paper currency 1's and 5's or some nationlistic tribute ... Ask him

Debbie

2:48 pm on Saturday, August 11, 2012

‎1corinthians 6:9&10: God did not have to use the words same sex partners to get us to understand. He said man should not lie with man or woman with woman.

Reply
Comment_arrow

Grunty

6:22 pm on Sunday, August 12, 2012

Thanks debbie,

But the new testament also says you should remain silent and never assume authority over any man. Do you also believe this should be a law?

Comment_arrow

Debbie

6:30 pm on Sunday, August 12, 2012

Grunty, sure... Why not?

Sue Johnson

4:19 pm on Saturday, August 11, 2012

There's so many comments here but as we are all entitled, here is my opinion.

1. I would NOT suggest quoting the bible, and asking those that read your quote to take the bible in the context you suggest. If that is the case, how about you quote Genesis 19:31-35 – Lot’s Daughters Sleep With Their Father (For those who don't know Lot's daughters got their father drunk to procreate with him so they could carry on their family line. And no where in the bible does it say "this is wrong")

I don't want a bunch of comments, just saying anything can be quoted out of text to be whatever you want it to mean.

For those against gay rights or gay marriage or the idea of same sex period.....what if it were your son or daughter born gay? There are plenty of examples of hermaphrodites (those being born with both sexes) and one day one of their lives the Dr "guesses" which sex to make them. Those are OBVIOUS physical traits on the "outside" of the body anyone can see. There has been so much research done and testing to prove the elevated estrogen or testosterone levels.....the world is one big melting pot....with people like Lot sleeping with his daughters (tongue in cheek here) do you not agree wiring can be mixed up?

Again, what if you had these strong beliefs handed down to you no doubt from your parents and not your own intuition, but your child was born gay.
Doesn't want to be gay. It's a harder life. But is. Should he/she not have the same rights as his siblings?

Reply
Comment_arrow

anthony

5:41 pm on Saturday, August 11, 2012

hear hear!!! let me dumb it down "There has been so much research done and testing to prove the elevated estrogen or testosterone levels" yep why some woman have hairy lips some men grow boobs why steroid users shrink the body is reacting to elevated levels oh yea most important part to much estrogen turns into testosterone visca versa

" the world is one big melting pot....with people like Lot sleeping with his daughters (tongue in cheek here) do you not agree wiring can be mixed up"
yep so if a family remains ethnically pure has the same nationality throughout generations they are narrowing the gene pool higher odds of defect..... East Africans are the exception they have very old DNA.
Once these choice/ pleasure pathways form ina young mind good luck changing them...
However studies do show very strong mother figures do lend to prefrence even if a man is present.. yea good post

lvent

5:51 pm on Saturday, August 11, 2012

Anthony...Now you are disclosing the mind control tactics of the elite....Stones and his buddies are going to cry. Please check out their Bible.....the CODEX GIGAS.....AKA THE DEVILS BIBLE.... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codex_Gigas

Reply

Leave a comment

 
 
 
 

Your town. Mobilized.

Download Patch for iPhone or Patch Places for Android.

Learn more 

Own a local business?

Stay in touch with customers by claiming your free Patch listing.

Learn more 

Advertise on Patch

Build community trust in your local brand with game-changing tools for any budget.

Learn how